The holidays are all about spending time with the ones you love [1], and a huge chunk of that can mean being with a significant other. From Hallmark movies [2] to cozy date ideas [3] to that still-perfect declaration of love in Love Actually ("To me, you are perfect"), being in a relationship almost seems like a requirement for the holidays. But while sometimes it can be a little annoying to fly solo this time of year [4], it can also be sort of a blessing. Just because you don't have a partner right now doesn't mean the most wonderful time of the year has to be any less wonderful. The holidays are about being with friends and family, too! After reading the 15 points ahead, you'll realize that the best gift you can give yourself this year is your independence.
You can focus on the food and booze at holiday parties instead of introducing them.
You don't have to worry about any fights ruining your holiday spirit.
It's one fewer gift you have to buy.
You don't have to attend your SO's friends' or office holiday parties.
You can go into the new year focusing on you.
You don't have to worry about whose family you're celebrating with.
You can live in your ugly holiday pajamas.
You choose the holidays plans.
You can do whatever you want without the romantic expectations.
You can focus on spending time with friends and family.
The money you would've spent on your SO and their family can be spent on yourself.
You can mingle with whoever you want at holiday parties.
You can decorate and DIY any way you'd like.
You can get as drunk as you want off eggnog on your own.
There's just less stress and pressure in every aspect!
