Skip Nav
Movie Trailers
9 Sexy Movies Hitting Theaters in 2017
JK Rowling
I Skipped My First Wedding For Harry Potter, and I'd Do It Again
Wedding
You're Worth the Wait: A Predeployment Engagement Shoot

Big Love Season 5, Episode 2 "A Seat at the Table"

Big Love: Can Enlightened Polygamy Exist?

I've always rooted for the Hendricksons on Big Love as proof that love, however unusual, can prevail. As proof polygamy doesn't have to be oppressive and misogynistic, but a choice no different than any other relationship off the mainstream path. However, after last night's episode, "A Seat at the Table," — where everyone fights to be heard — enlightened polygamy seems more impossible than ever.

Despite all the jealously, drama, and politics, patience and forgiveness — both acts of love — is what has always pulled the Hendricksons together. So like a monogamous relationship, polygamy comes down to the individuals and their respect for each other, their bandwidth for challenges, and willingness to forgive.

Yet a polygamist marriage is like a giant, sprawling relationship: it creates more challenges and requires more selflessness, but still just seems like a big mess most of the time. I don't think anyone short of a saint could make it work. Love can't overcome an institution grounded in patriarchy, and I'm even more confident after last night's episode that the Hendricksons' marriage will at least partially dissolve by the series finale.

What do you predict?

Join The Conversation
Burkina Burkina 6 years
It would never work for me. However I've heard stories from women who it does work for. Whatever floats your boat.
marcied23 marcied23 6 years
i don't know, even though i love big love, the relationship is still very male-centered...in fact the only one who seems to get the full benefit of the relationship is bill.
amber512 amber512 6 years
It would never work for me, I don't believe it is the right thing to do. But that doesn't mean it wouldn't work for someone else.
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pit File For Divorce | Video
Fall 2016 TV Shows
Jennifer Lopez World of Dance Outfits
Historically Black Colleges & Universities in Movies | Video
From Our Partners
Latest Love
All the Latest From Ryan Reynolds