I finally admitted to my boyfriend of 5 years that he doesn't give me orgasms in bed. We only have sex about once every two months (we don't live together, have strict parents.)
He asked me what he wanted me to do to help me . . . but I don't know! I've never had an orgasm during sex or oral, only when I am masturbating. Does anyone have any tips on what we can try? He turns me on so much, and now he feels inadequate that he can't do this.