OK, so by now I think everyone here knows this: I am six months into a relationship, in love with a guy who claims he loves me, too. So last night we were talking on the phone and I was telling him how I couldn't understand those girls who date several people at the same time. He jokingly said: yeah me neither! And I asked him if he had ever done it.
I expected him to reply (as usual): "No babe, I don't have the wits for that." But, to my great astonishment, he said: "Well, every time I did it I was caught!" What the hell?! Then he explained that sometimes when he was in a relationship he would find someone attractive and would want to try and see how she is! He would date her, go out with her two or three times before he got caught!! I really freaked out, told him that I took him for an honest kind of man. He said that was before and now is now! Very boldly he told me that he meets hot girls everyday and he gets tempted everyday but he has chosen to love and be with me!
Now I don't know what the hell to make out of the whole thing! I love him so much and I know he loves me too. but the trust is totally gone! Makes me sad because I kind of considered myself up for a long-term relationship. Now I don't know anything.