Hey guys. My boyfriend is training for a half-marathon. The other day I was on his phone and found a text he sent a friend. It said there were so many "hotties" on his route he thought his "head might explode" and that he "felt like a dirty old man." I should mention he is in his mid-30s and he runs on a college campus.
I don't know if this SHOULD or SHOULD NOT bother me, but it really does. It makes me feel really insecure — despite being an attractive woman. Now I constantly think he's checking out other women.
I told him I saw the text. He was very apologetic and said it was just a joke. We worked it out, but a couple days later I still find myself thinking about it. We have been dating about nine months and we live together.
How would y'all feel? What would you do?