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Can't Stop Fantasizing About Men

Sunday Confessional: I Can't Stop Fantasizing

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below.

I am a young lady in my late 20s married to a wonderful guy and we've been together about eight years. I'm not quite sure when it started, but it seems like I fantasize about every guy I talk to. Depending on how well I know them and attractiveness they can get very, very vivid and it makes me self-conscious about whether guys can tell what I'm doing. It's so bad that I pretty much avoid eye contact with guys in general because I feel like I betray Hubby every time it happens.

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GregS GregS 6 years
I hope you all remain this open when your bf/husb looks at another woman, fantasizes about them in stead of you. We all live on a 2-way street...
Natalie-Love Natalie-Love 6 years
Meh, I really don't think it's a big deal, as long as you find your husband attractive too. Huge difference between fantasizes and real life. I say take that pent up horniness from thinking of lewd things and give your husband the time of his life that night, haha. @ Pistil- it's hilarious cause he looks a little pissed off, and she's like "Oh ya, keep talking, I'm imagining you in the buff." Oh my.
Pistil Pistil 6 years
Lol, RoaringSilence. Can't you just see the dirty things going through that woman's mind?
calvin138 calvin138 6 years
at some point you will not be able to control how you feel. perhaps a quick kiss from a guy you work with? something will happen, maybe not soon but someday. tell your hubby this happen once and you felt like you cheated but you had to tell him to come clean. if he is like many of us men we often think about our wives with other men. even if he says no way you have opened a door where you have allowed him to come into. don't keep him out, open communication is where great love making begins. i wish you luck, and you are so special to be in touch with your feelings the way you do. trust me it takes some of us near 50 years to get where you are today.
RoaringSilence RoaringSilence 6 years
Yeah, I wouldn't beat myself up over it. As long as you're not acting upon it and making sure the other guys don't notice it, you're perfectly fine. Other people don't stop being cute just because you get married. I love that photo in the article, btw. ahah
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
Very true Venus. If you feel like you're going to stray physically, please get yourself to a counselor to work your feelings out before it happens. But as long as you still love and lust for your husband and your fantasies aren't interfering with your daily life, I don't see the harm.
Venus1 Venus1 6 years
A little imagination does not hurt anyone my love.
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