DEARSUGAR and Worn Out Winnie need your help. She needs to figure out some way to sexually satisfy her boyfriend enough for him to leave her alone once in a while so she can get some rest. Do you have any suggestions?
I love my boyfriend very much and I think that we have a healthy sex life, however, he never seems to be satisfied. He wants to have sex all of the time! He always wants it in the evening before we go to sleep and then again in the morning before work.
There are some nights I am so tired that I just want to crash and he gets so disappointed if I don't want to make love. He'll get all pouty and spend about an hour tossing and turning and making the situation seem dramatic. I feel like he takes it as rejection when really I am just exhausted.
I don't want my boyfriend to feel unsatisfied sexually, but at the same time, I need him to understand that twice a day is too much for me. I don't think that anyone can sustain this kind of lifestyle. We have been dating for six months and we've just moved in together. Is anyone else in this situation that can offer some pointers? Worn Out Winnie