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Dating Bad Boys

Group Therapy: I Like a Bad Boy

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Man oh man, how to begin, well I'm the kind of girl who loves the serious relationships, I like any girl love to feel special. Recently I started talking to my high school crush from seven years ago. He was and still is a bad boy.

There are some things he does that I don't really respect, but there are some things that I really like about him. He loves hanging out with me and can be sweet at times. Legally there are things he really should not be doing that bother me and I want to confront him about this but I don't know how to go about that.


He is very charming and really, really good looking, very sexy, which also worries me because any girl would be attracted to him, and he goes out of town a lot for work. My head is in between wanting this and not, but my heart has a bad feeling. I'm stuck. The last thing I need happening is getting hurt, but I don't want to just assume that's what will happen.

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GregS GregS 6 years
If you can't respect someone, you shouldn't be in a relationship with them. Period. End of discussion.
onlysourcherry onlysourcherry 6 years
Two words: conjugal visits. Awwwwww yeah.
dikke-kus dikke-kus 6 years
Maybe when he lands in a county jail you can visit him there.
MissSushi MissSushi 6 years
I agree, just sounds like a post to rile people up.
jazzytummy jazzytummy 6 years
Do you know how many women are in jail because they were involved with men that were criminals? Seriously? A pretty huge percentage. Please grow up. This post doesn't even seem real.
Carri Carri 6 years
This has got to be a joke. Anyone with half a brain could figure this out on their own.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 6 years
Really? Maybe I'm burnt out on all these Group Therapy posts, but didn't most people figure this out in high school? I know that's b*tchy, but just think about it for two seconds and you'll figure it out.
JoeTyndall JoeTyndall 6 years
OP, Everyone wants to have some excitement in life. This guy is providing you with a chance to be with a guy who is alive and exciting, a guy who will light up the room just by walking in. But please keep in mind that he may not be more more than just some excitement in your (boring?) life.
talanted08 talanted08 6 years
If you want him to be relationship material then you need to communicate with him about your feeling's! I know how it is to love a bad boy but I also know what type of road this will lead in to! If he has legal issues then don't try to change him b/c that's going to cause problems but I would speak with him about it! Especially if anything involves or happens around you! Think about what your getting into before jumping head over heals! Only you know what type of future you and him can have!
kurniakasih kurniakasih 6 years
Agreed. Doesn't sound like a material for bf, but may be good in the sack or a potential for fb but def. make him wear condom. But if you think you're going to have sex with him, make sure you're not emotionally hooked on him, b/c when he got caught one day *yah, the not-so-legal stuffs he's doing may catch up with him* then it's not going to be sexy waiting for someone to get out of the joint.
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
So you have many reasons to doubt him, but you don't want to doubt him because you feel judgmental? Am I summing this up right? He sounds like he's not relationship material, though if you're looking for some hot nsa action, he's your man. Make him wear a condom!
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