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Dear Poll: Do You Cuddle in Bed?

Some people are cuddlers by nature, while others need their space, but then there are those who like a little bit of both. Like I've said before, I didn't used to be a cuddler, but I can now appreciate that connected feeling you get when you're in the arms of the person you love even when you're sound asleep. Now I know cuddling depends on the time, the place, and the person, but tell me, do you like to cuddle in bed or are you the type who sleeps on the opposite side of the bed, as far away from your significant other as possible?


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myprivatespace myprivatespace 8 years
If he hasn't fallen asleep before I reached bed, it is impossible that we will not cuddle. He spoons me or I tug at him to remind him that he is missing something. I don't know when I move away at night but definitely he will not wake up without us snuggling in the morning cold.
jennjennnbubba jennjennnbubba 9 years
I cuddle for a bit when I first crawl into bed but soon I am on my side and he on his.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
I don't mind cuddling.. sometimes it can get uncomfortable.One night I was requesting cuddling and after 5 mins he was like, " baby I can't do this.." I think b/c his arm was falling asleep.. it was an awkward position. haha... But we usually cuddle post sex, then drift apart. We sometimes sleep back to back! haha.. But then during random times in the night we would roll over and kiss each other on the shoulder or neck. We're more of the spooners from the waist down.... sorta like a "K" formation..I sleep in the fetal position with him behind me. haha
lolabella lolabella 9 years
i have this bizarre thing, almost like "circling the wagons," where i have to fall asleep with my back to The Husband - like a protection thing. no matter what side of the bed i'm on, i can't fall asleep facing him. i'm not a back or stomach sleeper, so it's always on the side and the back facing him. he gets it and is used to it after 12 years. i do the same thing with my children when they're napping with me.
Isista Isista 9 years
I said Other, because both my boyfriend and I love to cuddle, but usually during the night we end up moving apart or at least shifting positions sometimes. Especially if it's hot outside. But we still both love cuddling :)
watereatsrock watereatsrock 9 years
we cuddle during the day, at night, and as we are falling asleep, but we separate when we fall asleep, I need my space to sleep.
hmcmcd hmcmcd 9 years
we love to cuddle! One of the first thing he asked me was what are my vices, I said,I am very needy and I love to cuddle. At first he wasn't that in to cuddling but now he will ask me to come cuddle with him. We are both addicted
0danielle0 0danielle0 9 years
There are nights we do, and nights we don't. I've woken up to us holding hands before, which is really cute. Sometimes you just want to sleep though, ya know? :)
jfellows1631 jfellows1631 9 years
we cuddle to fall asleep...same starting position every nite...but then we separate and stay on our own sides....or if you believe him....i sleep in the middle and he sleeps on the edge.... :)
divinedebris divinedebris 9 years
The husband and I spend a lot of quality time cuddling, on the couch, in bed..wherever but when we sleep, we don't usually cuddle. We'll cuddle up to the point of sleeping, but my husband is a night sweater and it's kinda gross..:) So we snuggle and then part and sleep, even though I stay on his side of the bed most of the time just to be close to him.
simplyfab87 simplyfab87 9 years
No cuddling! Its drive my bf crazy that I dislike it so much because he loves it. Its just not my thing.
jackandjlin jackandjlin 9 years
Me and my boyfriend are hardcore cuddlers. We cuddle up as soon as we lay down and even when one of us moves during the night we still end up back together cuddled up. My boyfriend is by far the best cuddler I've ever been with, I think we bring out the cuddle bunny in each other.
gigill gigill 9 years
I loooooooove cuddling, but when it comes time to sleep we tend to seperate and I'm ok with that. I've had a boyfriend call me "distant" for seperating as I tend to curl into a little ball when I want a comfy sleep.
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
My husband is a big cuddler where I am naturally a little less so. But it's grown on me and we cuddle a lot. Sometimes though I just can't stand it and need my space but we joke about it and laugh about that too
skigurl skigurl 9 years
other: same as so many others: cuddle and first, then seperate. i like to keep one part touching, like my hand tucket under his leg or something, or our legs brushing into each other. i used to be physically unable to spoon for very long, because i hate hate hated sleeping on my side, but i'm much better now, and can do that. i like to kinda snuggle a bit in the middle of the night too, and i'm always looking out for opportunities to get in the nook!
bluebird bluebird 9 years
My fiance is about a billion degrees when he sleeps, and I can't stand to be that hot. We definitely don't cuddle in the beginning of the night or during, but we somehow wake up forehead-to-forehead and holding hands : )
kythera kythera 9 years
Same here as Jillellen457. We cuddle at first and then separate. I was never really exposed to much cuddling with past bfs. My husband wouldn't mind cuddling all night if I didn't roll around so much. Haha. 8)
Kristinh1012 Kristinh1012 9 years
I don't like to cuddle, but my BF does. Sometimes I can tell it really bothers him so I try to for as long as I can, but I'm SUPER claustrophobic so I have a really hard time with cuddling.
bengalspice bengalspice 9 years
Majority of the time I do wrap myself around my boyfriend ... when I know the next morning I'll have all the time in the world to wake up. But I prefer to be curled in my own little corner of the bed if I really really really need a good night sleep for some early activity the next morning.
gonedelirious gonedelirious 9 years
We have to cuddle. It is the best thing though. We are both a little scraped up right now, so we can't cuddle :!: I have had the hardest time falling asleep.
ffemt1201 ffemt1201 9 years
my boyfriend and i fall asleep cuddling but sometimes separate at some point during the night...
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
We cuddle as we fall asleep, but when I wake up to pee or something, I might face the other direction as I fall back asleep. We're chronic nappers/sleepers, so we don't just go to bed for eight hours...We're sleeping for ten or so with a pee break in between!
violinladyfreak violinladyfreak 9 years
We cuddle when we fall asleep, then naturally separate but in the morning since he always wakes up first, he'd cuddle again to wake me up.
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