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Dear Poll: Do You Like to Cuddle After Sex?

Although the vast majority of you like to cuddle before bed, I wonder if you like to cuddle after sex. I would assume so, but this past weekend my friend who is a self-proclaimed cuddler and hugger, said she just can’t handle cuddling after sex. She likes to be near her boyfriend, but she needs to just be in her body alone for a few minutes before snuggling up. I found that cuddling anomaly fascinating, so tell me, do you like to cozy up after a roll in the hay?


calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
well, after i get married, i would like to cuddle after doing it. but, after getting cleaned up. not before that. its gross.
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 8 years
I love cuddling regardless! I'm a freaking limpet, cant get rid of me!
ilanac13 ilanac13 9 years
it's kind of funny - a lot of girls say that they don't like it when their partner just rolls over after sex and i have the opposite problem with my man...he always wants to cuddle and wraps his body around me, and sometimes i just like to have my space. i don't want to see rude about it but there are just times when i like to be left alone, not because i don't love and adore him but just because i love to have space just about all the time. does that make me a bad person?
steffy08 steffy08 9 years
im usually sweaty and so is he so unless we are showering no contact please. but he likes to, then gets upset when i dont want to its sweet and frustrating.
Poster-of-a-Girl Poster-of-a-Girl 9 years
I have a lot of energy afterwards, I'm one of those people. So I generally wanna get up and move around... or go at it again. Depends on my mood ;) Cuddling makes me fidgety.
k8-rckstr k8-rckstr 9 years
No Im usually hot and sweaty and want to be left alone with space to cool down... but my guy loves cuddling and sometimes it drives me crazy... lol
Belle1031 Belle1031 9 years
I absolutely love to cuddle after sex but unfortunately my guy doesn't. He's a big boy so he sweats and gets very hot during sex. As soon as were done we usually just turn the AC on and just lay there in silence :(
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
Yes! We're always cuddling and touching and he loves it as much as I do. :D
0fashionqueen 0fashionqueen 9 years
I think Sarah that it is all up to the person that is on the recieving end.
sarahcateh sarahcateh 9 years
I actually really don't like touching after sex... is that weird? I like laying around and talking, just not touching.
0fashionqueen 0fashionqueen 9 years
I like to cuddle period, but sometimes I feel like your friend. I need my personal space as well and I like to be alone sometimes.
Muirnea Muirnea 9 years
I love cuddling anytime. :)
Le-Luxe Le-Luxe 9 years
No, Not really. I usually get clean afterwards, then I like to relax.
HeidiMD HeidiMD 9 years
Cuddling after sex always feels sweaty and gross. Neither of us really cuddlers, though.
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
rofl Mich!! My answer to the poll is a simple, "no".
simplyfab87 simplyfab87 9 years
No cuddling for me. I usually roll over to the other side of the bed. I like my space after the deed is done. If we have sex during the day, I usually get up out of bed immediately after we're done, I can't just lay there.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 9 years
Of course I like to cuddle and hold him close after we have had sex. To let him know how good he felt and so I can know that I have pleased him right. but then I need my space. lol.
valancyjane valancyjane 9 years
Cuddling is a strong word for what I like - the sweat factor means I don't want to get too close skin-to-skin, but I like a bit of tender touching. Or if we have the sheets between us we can spoon.
princess_eab princess_eab 9 years
I guess I don't get this - what else do people do after sex? run away? I mean.... we usually hold each other, chat for awhile and depending on the time of day, either get up and make breakfast, go to sleep or (if it's in the afternoon, tee hee!) get dressed and go out.
babysoftpink babysoftpink 9 years
don't really have sex, so don't know.
Mesayme Mesayme 9 years
Mich... you praying mantis you... :ROTFL: :WAVE: sugarbritches Doesn't the cuddling/spooning make it all worthwhile? That's the sweet part, the most intimate part...waking up with his arms around you. I'm just guessing- I tazed my ex-husband if he lingered.
Michelann Michelann 9 years
I prefer to kill my mate and lay my eggs in his chest cavity. It's far more fulfilling.
SusanTeufel SusanTeufel 9 years
I love to cuddle with my hubby after a good lovin', lol. Even if I am just asleep, we usually end up right next to each other even if we start out on our seperate sides.
sugarbritches sugarbritches 9 years
Completely depends on the person! I've noticed that there are no hard and fast rules as to how I will react to a guy...
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