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Dear Poll: Do You Spill the Beans To Your Girlfriends?

Sex is the most intimate way to connect with someone. It can be romantic, erotic, and adventurous, but as we all know, it can also be not so perfect or glamorous. While it's fun to trade stories with your girlfriends about what you did, what you said, what positions you did it in, etc. some women are very private about what happens in-between the sheets. So what I want to know is, do you dish with your girlfriends like the Sex and the City women about your love life or do you prefer to keep your intimate escapes to yourself?


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starbright14 starbright14 9 years
i love a good sex chat between friends
i-am-elle i-am-elle 10 years
My closest girlfriends & I love to have our sex talks. Great bonding experience & I know I can trust them. <3
laura1867 laura1867 10 years
It seems like it would be cheap to talk about it.
Stuffy Stuffy 10 years
Nope, I've had too many girlfriends stab me in the back. Even my best friend ended up being a she-devil and calling me on every mistake I've ever made.
lady-T lady-T 10 years
only to friends who are in a serious relationship like i am.otherwise i feel uncomfortable about it!
vmruby vmruby 10 years
No i've always kept that stuff behind closed doors.My friends do more talking about their private lives with me and i don't mind it.I was never the type of person who would kiss and tell....;)
sass317 sass317 10 years
Before I met my husband I would dish with my girlfriends- but now that Im married it doesnt really seem right. I did talk to my best friend a little one time after a few drinks and of course now I wish I hadnt.
demeter demeter 10 years
No, I'm not comfortable sharing my most private details with my CAT, let alone a friend. Plus, it's not their business and I don't want to hear about their sex life either.
reese05 reese05 10 years
My friends and I talk about sex but we really do not discuss intimate details, we just discuss it in general. lol
lickety-split lickety-split 10 years
no, and i would be so uncomfortable if my dh did that. before i was married i traded stories about boyfriends, but now it's different. when my married friends bring up their sex lives i'm kind of grossed out. i don't need to hear thanks.
thisbulimicwar thisbulimicwar 10 years
i have 3 best friends however i only talk about sex and relationships with only one of them
potterlove potterlove 10 years
I believe in "Don't kiss and tell" but I do tell some-some of my flings with my BEST girlfriends!
honeysugar28 honeysugar28 10 years
I'm like books and shoes I don't talk about sex I just listen to my friends talk about their sex lives.
rlveronica rlveronica 10 years
I do! Not just my girlfriends, but my guy friends... because I only have a handful of girlfriends. But now that my boyfriend's voiced his opinion about me being a blabber-mouth, I think I'll keep hush. I respect his wishes. :)
Ikandy Ikandy 10 years
When I was high school and college. Never about my husband. Its too private, I think its kindof disrespesctful in a way. If there was something really wrong, then maybe Id talk to my best friend about it, only if I didnt have the balls to confront my husband about it...I hope to never be in that situation.
Greggie Greggie 10 years
Exactly what the first post says - I don't discuss intimate details about my husband.
indielove indielove 10 years
no, i keep the details to myself. like Party Sugar, i have some judgmental friends. actually, they're all like that, for the most part.
Amanda-La Amanda-La 10 years
I used to talk about sex all the time when I was first married because it's so fun to talk about and share with girlfriends but my hubby doesn't like it because he's so shy about sex that I almost stopped altogether but sometimes when we're drinking we girls will chat. I LOVE TO!
stopitgirls stopitgirls 10 years
I'm married so I don't even have sex. lol (nor do i want it)
partysugar partysugar 10 years
For me it depends. I love talking sex details with some of my girlfriends. The non-judgemental ones.
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 10 years
Its tacky to kiss and tell.
McSquish McSquish 10 years
It's gotten me in trouble with my guy (he's very private) and just in general, I'm too open. I've learned that saying less is more. I do occasionally talk specifics, but that's only if I'm asked about specifics, other than that, I'm pretty general too, but it's taken me a long time to find the balance.
SugarCat SugarCat 10 years
I've been doing the string of flings lately, so I will talk. Next time I'm in a relationship, however, details won't be as forthcoming.
c0rkie c0rkie 10 years
likewise with book and shoes and marci. juicy stories about the flings. but there's something sacred about a relationship.
Marci Marci 10 years
I did until I met my fiance. So now, like books and shoes, the conversaion about sex is general, but no details get spilled. That would be like breaking a trust.
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