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Dear Poll: Does Porn Turn You on?



I get many e-mails from women who are concerned that their boyfriend or husband spends too much time looking at pornography, but have you ever given it a whirl? Bringing some spice into the bedroom can really heat things up, but you have to remember to leave your jealousy at the door and keep an open mind. I know some women who find watching porn with their boyfriend to be a total turn on, and others who don't find it sexy at all. Since we are all entitled to our own opinions, what I want to know is, does porn turn you on?

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MisterPinkNoTip MisterPinkNoTip 9 years
It doesn't turn me on, but I don't think it's disgusting either. It just doesn't appeal to me. So I voted other.
ninjastarlett ninjastarlett 9 years
I think I have more porn than any of my male friends...
jadorechaussures jadorechaussures 9 years
I've only watched a little bit of lesbian porn wiht my friend in college after she came out. She wanted to find out about lesbian sex. We watched it for like 5 minutes and realized it was geared towards men and totally gross. I also don't like close-ups of vaginas..not a fan.
DarkRayne DarkRayne 9 years
How one would be turned on by looking at sluts and degenerates on screen I'll never know. hmmmm
Seraphim Seraphim 9 years
nicachica i'm with you %110,... about every aspect you listedand probably more ;)
Seraphim Seraphim 9 years
nicachica i'm with you %110,... about every aspect you listed and probably more ;)
krampalicious krampalicious 9 years
i definitely enjoy some porno action, but i like stories more than anything else. movies are all right, but they have to be respectful, and the girl has to get off for me to be down.
em1282 em1282 9 years
I like it--not gonna lie. My bf was surprised that I'd be up for watching some with him! And add me to the list of y'all who loved "Pirates"--it's hilarious and the sex ain't too bad either. (Heh, my favorite girl Jesse Jane is in it too, so that doesn't hurt ;))
nicachica nicachica 9 years
thanks Lovelylei. I'm not trying to be a prude but I can't help the way I feel about it. Having studied issues about the exploitation of women's sexuality makes me convinced that porn is not harmless.
lovelylei lovelylei 9 years
I know what you mean nicachica and I also feel I am sometimes too sensitive regarding issues like this..
nicachica nicachica 9 years
I don't like porn because the reality of the porn industry is that it IS degrading to women. I'm all for sexual freedom but I just don't think that this "freedom" extends to an industry that caters to mainly men and portrays women as sexual objects to be twisted and turned in any way that pleases a man. Yes, I've seen porn but I don't like it. I can't help but feel sorry for the women even if it is their choice to do it. I look at these women and think that it's sad because even though they make good money, they are still participating in a patriarchal act of domination and oftentimes don't have a say in how a scene is acted out (i.e. gang-banging). Sorry to get all feminist on you but this is just one of those things I'm not down for. Luckily, my boyfriend thinks its stupid...that it's more funny than a turn-on. I'm not opposed to erotic materials, but so much porn is based in violence and i just can't be cool with that. Soft porn is a bit different since it's pretty tame but this post is already too long, so i'll just stop there. Maybe i'm just too sensitive? Oh well...
nicachica nicachica 9 years
I don't like porn because the reality of the porn industry is that it IS degrading to women. I'm all for sexual freedom but I just don't think that this "freedom" extends to an industry that caters to mainly men and portrays women as sexual objects to be twisted and turned in any way that pleases a man. Yes, I've seen porn but I don't like it. I can't help but feel sorry for the women even if it is their choice to do it. I look at these women and think that it's sad because even though they make good money, they are still participating in a patriarchal act of domination and oftentimes don't have a say in how a scene is acted out (i.e. gang-banging). Sorry to get all feminist on you but this is just one of those things I'm not down for. Luckily, my boyfriend thinks its stupid...that it's more funny than a turn-on. I'm not opposed to erotic materials, but so much porn is based in violence and i just can't be cool with that. Soft porn is a bit different since it's pretty tame but this post is already too long, so i'll just stop there. Maybe i'm just too sensitive? Oh well...
reese05 reese05 9 years
Depends on the porn. I want something with passion and intimacy...
maddiemay maddiemay 9 years
Watch w/ b-friend- yes would do occasionally. Solo- no thanks.
Beastiegirl5 Beastiegirl5 9 years
Yup, love the porn. I've seen "Pirates" too. It was a riot- the "acting" is half the fun. (Hot scenes too.)
lisafrank lisafrank 9 years
Yes! But it has to be the right porn to get me in the mood
higgydt4 higgydt4 9 years
I've never watched porn and I never want to. I'm a semi- religious person and don't believe in it. I find it disgusting.
lulis lulis 9 years
I have a big selection, and I too have seen Pirates :)
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
Truth is I do watch it with my fiance at times. Sometimes it makes us laugh and it's never made me want him more in the sense that I'm using him as a substitute. Mainly sharing in the experience with him gets me going. We get hot for each other because we are sharing something that sort of taboo (even though these days it seems so mainstream) and it brings us closer because we're more open. I'm not a big fan of either of us doing it alone because I feel that our sex life is a shared thing and I don't need for him to use it as a pcifier when I'm not in the mood because I think it's more healthy for us to accept that sometimes one or both of us is going to want it when the other doesn't. I know it sounds weird but for me porn can be somethnig that inspires intimacy instead of detracting from it
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
I picked "other" because it turns me on occasionally but it makes me feel cheap and dirty.
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
I've seen Pirates too! Oh god it was awesome :)
lanuchan lanuchan 9 years
i watch it and like it, just i don't get around to it often. haha and i've seen pirates too!! no idea why, but i have. the girls are hot...cheesy storyline but very high budget!! haha.
SummerBaby SummerBaby 9 years
haha i have seen Pirates! lol and i agree you cannot look away.. you just keep watching and watching
OhMyShannon OhMyShannon 9 years
If you ladies would love a good laugh, get the porn "Pirates." The acting is horrible but you can't seem to look away or turn it off. Definitely a good time.
KC_27 KC_27 9 years
yes i love watching porn!
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