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Dear Poll: Have You Ever Experimented With the Back Door?

Since sex can be somewhat embarrassing to talk about, I gave you all an opportunity to ask whatever burning questions you had over the weekend, anonymously of course. A lot of you were curious about the booty, and I wasn't all that surprised — anal sex isn't the easiest or most PC topic to discuss! Since it was top of mind for many, I'm curious to know if you've ever experimented with anal sex before, so tell me . . .


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Kat-E Kat-E 8 years
Hey! What about Option #4: Yes, but it wasn't for me.
Smacks83 Smacks83 8 years
Love it, it's just essential that you are prepared. Um, how do I put this, make sure you are "clean" and don't have to go (as in you already went),you are relaxed (maybe work on easing it open youself first? My guy loves watching porn action,lol) and plenty of lube and deep breaths. I love it, it feels amazing and yeah, I'm a dirty little bird because thats not even the most "out there" thing i do in the sack. Proud to be a dirty girl ;)
JustSomeChick JustSomeChick 8 years
Love it.
letijay letijay 8 years
My b/f and I do it occasionally. For me, the most important aspect is to make sure we ease it in. Then, when he's in all the way, I like to rest a little bit, maybe a minute. Once I've adjusted, we can have at it. Probably, we don't do it more b/c it's relatively more complicated than anything else we do, but it's nice for a change. Finger play is definitely a regular part of our sex life, though. I find it can be just the thing to put me over the edge when I'm close.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 8 years
I couldn't choose any of those answers, since mine would be "yes, and never again." I hated it.
bebehaul24 bebehaul24 8 years
ok I've tried it a couple times and I think "traumatic" is the best word to describe it. I do not want to be brought to tears during sex and I don't want to be with a man who wants to hurt me so bad!
Vampyre Vampyre 8 years
I agree that we need more options in this poll. We also need, "never tried it and I'm not interested" as well as "tried it, didn't like it".
Blackwidowchick Blackwidowchick 8 years
Yeah, where is the option of tried it and didn't like it? I guess it is either yes i love it, or no that's nasty, or ummm i want to try it. well I pick option d..tried it with 2 different boyfriends and didn't like it.
Talldiva45 Talldiva45 8 years
Every once in a while my bf tries to ease it in there and I don't mind bc he is gentle - I have NEVER gone all the way though. We will see how it goes. I am curious bc most women "seem" to enjoy it. I guess it's just a matter of preference. My bf always wants to try it though
Sugasuga29 Sugasuga29 8 years
CaterpillarGirl, and Jude--y'all are hilarious! lol My frustration with this has been that with two of my exes I was able to do this and while I didn't love it, it was enjoyable enough. But now that I'm married and would LIKE to be able to explore other avenues with my husband...he's too dang big. We have tried twice and the last time I ended up screaming at him and slapped him away. :( Poor guy! He thought he'd killed me.
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 8 years
I dont walk, I slide.
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
Every day wouldn't be enough for you. I don't even know how you're able to walk. :p
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 8 years
its not, i will admit that.
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
CaterpillarGirl gets that cave spelunked about twice a week from what I've heard, and that's not even enough for her.
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 8 years
I def dont fake it like a pornstar and do get off from doing it in the backdoor..
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 8 years
Ive done it a few times -- with two guys in my past (and it was really fun and manageable with them) but then with my bf the first tiem we did it about 2 years ago we were super drunk and he was lubed up and it was wonderful and felt fantastic.. but then when we did it recently (lubed again) it was pleasurable but I felt like I might poop all over his **ck. He's really above average and it was just like an odd pressure like thaaat could happen.. anyone else get this??
TidalWave TidalWave 8 years
I love how mondaymoos described it as "the feeling of having to take a massive sh*t". that is exactly how I felt the first two times, now I don't even think about it like that! Just something your body adjusts to.
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
I did it for the first time with my ex when we were both REALLY drunk on tequila. He got the wrong lube out and stuck MINT LUBE up my ass. OH MY GOD I SCREAMED SO LOUD. It hurt so bad and he didn't stop and argghhhhh... so traumatic. Then we got drunk and decided to relay this story to our friends... one of whom I am now dating. :p So my current boyfriend is more understanding! He goes slow, uses the RIGHT lube and just can't stay away from there once I let him. I don't understand it but he gets off from it so I just let him do it. It's not exactly unpleasant but I KNOW those women in porn are FAKING IT SO HARD because there is nothing to get off from down there. Eugh.
talanted08 talanted08 8 years
With most of these women that have not tried anal there's nothing wrong with your opinion. I think people should try it at least once for there own personal feeling/opinion. This will be my first time trying it with my husband of 5yrs.. When I interacted with him I thought it was going to be a long night but once you get in the groove pass the pain it's easier to enjoy! It took some time to get over the healing but we at least try to do it once a month (if that)!
TidalWave23 TidalWave23 8 years
No thanks dude. That's a friggin' exit-only for me.
Vaadsfweytes Vaadsfweytes 8 years
I like it sometimes. It depends on the guy and everything else. I definitely wouldn't do it with a guy who's big. I'd have to feel very comfortable with a guy to actually try anal sex.
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 8 years
Jude C has and she told me she loved it.
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