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Dear Poll: Have You Ever Fantasized About Someone Else?

It’s always been assumed that every once and a while, men fantasize about another woman while having sex. But for women, fantasizing about someone else often leads to feelings of guilt and relationship insecurity. However, truth be told, just as a small crush is perfectly normal, so is fantasizing about someone else while doing the deed. Taking it to an extreme is never good, but a casual appearance by Javier Bardem is fine by me! So ladies, tell me, have you ever fantasized about someone else while having sex with your significant other?


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BeautiJunki BeautiJunki 9 years
prudes, lol. there is no reason to feel guilty sometimes its guys and sometimes it girls. I love my good looking husband who is my bf but after 12 years together your mind will wonder occasionally.
cariann cariann 9 years
Not while having sex with my husband... but sometimes just during the day. (I have a boring job) And dreams.. but they don't count.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
I have once and it was interesting and fun but I couldn't help feeling like he could read my mind and I felt a little ashamed.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
So, I was broken up with my boyfriend during the summer. We had been having a really rocky relationship, and this was the fifth break-up in like two months, and he had done it the day before my birthday. I finally started dating this great guy, but while having sex, I couldn't stop thinking about how much I wished it was my boyfriend and how he knew what I liked better. I guess when you learn how to have sex with someone, you just can't shake them so quickly...They know what you want like the back of their hand. Thank goodness we're back together.
chicaparati17 chicaparati17 9 years
Yes, and no I dont think anything is wrong with an occasional fantasy. Its not that your current doesnt turn you on its just a me, men do it all the time. You are fooling yourself if you think that they dont because they are visual creatures anyway.
Meike Meike 9 years
No. Something is missing in the relationship if your SO can't turn you on mentally, emotionally and physically while doing the deed.
tglynn tglynn 9 years
Not during sex, but usually when I've just had a fight with my bf. lol. He always gets himself back on my mind though :P
i-am-elle i-am-elle 9 years
With my ex, yes. With my current bf, no!
luvofashion luvofashion 9 years
i did fantasize alot about one guy in particular when i was with my ex....and guess what lol..i ended up hooking up with this guy.... and it is still AMAZING!
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
Once I did... and yeah the feelings of guilt were there. I really didn't know what to do lol
designergirl designergirl 9 years
*a dirty girl*
designergirl designergirl 9 years
Not during sex, but I am dirty girl in my mind.
InfernalMari InfernalMari 9 years
I tried once; I was uptight, and I wasn't feeling it, so I tried to think of Clooney, but all of my mental images of Clooney have him smirking, and I'm like, wait, Clooney's not turning me on? Grand disaster.
rpenner rpenner 9 years
I've definitely had the occasional fantasy, but I don't think I've ever thought of another guy while having sex with my man. There isn't a need too. He turns me on just fine :)
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
I did with an ex but not my current BF. I occasionally dream about others but that's nothing that can be helped, really.
linb linb 9 years
I did once, but it was just weird. My boyfriend is my first and only, and the thought of sleeping with someone else was not very appealing.
LexinesRibbon LexinesRibbon 9 years
Mmm...there's been the occassional fantasy, but then I think it also keeps a relationship long as you're not yelling out the other person's name...
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
With a couple of exes - yes...but with my current Hubby - NO! Mmmm I haven't had it in like 3 days too...I am gettign so restless!
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