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Dear Poll: How Many Fights Did You Have With Your Significant Other in 2007?

Are you in a relationship where your friends don't like to go out with you because you're constantly fighting with your parnter? Or do you fight so infrequently that when you finally do, it's almost a deal breaker? When you spend a lot of time with someone, especially when you're lovers and friends, it's inevitable that you're going to fight from time to time. I happen to feel that fighting every once in a while is healthy and can even make your relationship stronger, so ladies, what I want to know is, approximately how many fights did you have with your significant other in 2007?

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SummerFlirts SummerFlirts 9 years
We have had over 10 fights or (arguments). Overall I think it has only made us a stronger couple.
bransugar79 bransugar79 9 years
My fiance and I are both really stubborn so we butt heads eventually. We don't FIGHT a lot so maybe 3 big fights a year but we do have things we disagree on daily which are usually very funny and we joke about them. But I think that is kind of why we're together I could never be with someone who didn't have his own opinion and I would never give up my own mind for anyone
the-makeup-blogette the-makeup-blogette 9 years
abt 5, i forgot what they were about though. :p
Jacinthe Jacinthe 9 years
We don't have fights, per say -- not the typical yelling angry ones. When I get mad at someone I care about, I get real quiet and just sort of stop talking. My boy knows this, and that's when he knows that whatever he's saying is very much the wrong thing to be saying. The only time a bout of bickering or arguing has occurred was over politics, he made some comments that hit me the wrong way and I stormed off until my brain cooled down. Generally, though, neither of us gets angry enough for full-out fighting. We're both way too easy going. Hehe.
Blessed2x Blessed2x 9 years
very BAD year
marthalilian126 marthalilian126 9 years
Well over ten -- but there was no makeup sex. Just a nasty breakup. It's for the better I do suppose.
wambalus wambalus 9 years
We both had a really rough year, and once we recognised that the fights were more products of our situations, rather than problems we had with each other, it made things easier. We never used to fight so it's really upsetting when we do. Plus we're best friends and don't really have other people to turn to, so we both sulk alone until we make up.
melda melda 9 years
he doesn't fight with me but i yell at him sometimes, it's not fight though it's my misunderstandings
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 9 years
I am with Marci ..
brookrene brookrene 9 years
Same here marci, it's been a stressful year. But if i've learned anything it's that we both have unconditional love for each other which makes me truly thankful.
Marci Marci 9 years
We had a very stressful year on many fronts so we argued more than usual. But it seems to have made us stronger and closer as a couple, which I'm relieved about.
fashionhore fashionhore 9 years
0; we don't fight. There is nothing worse than having a relationship full of fights and bickering.
emalove emalove 9 years
Little fights here and there...we've never fought over anything serious. Thank God.
kia kia 9 years
Summerbaby, good for the two of you on learning to work together. My guy and I have done a marriage preparation retreat, and DIY communication skills building with books from the library. We aren't perfect but have become pretty constructive in how we go about our thing.
lilwildone1202 lilwildone1202 9 years
really big "blowouts"? just ...two or three. but we bicker. we had alot of stress with us moving 500 miles from where we orginally were.
divinelight divinelight 9 years
more like one and it WAS a deal breaker.
SaRaH-22 SaRaH-22 9 years
haha i like that...creative bickering
clareberrys clareberrys 9 years
yeah we bicker, but not every day and always about stupid things....basically we get stressed about school,work, life,etc and we just take it out on each other....we always apologize and realize that we are just stressed and then we are fine. I think this is healthy and normal. We've only had one or two major arguments in our 2 years of being together so I think we are doing okay!
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
We had about 2-5 MAJOR ARGUMENTS where many tears were shed and I didn't know whether we would be able to make it through. We've been having a few raised voice discussions this week but not against each other. We bounce back pretty quick and that's good! I know he adores me and I adore him. We make it through anything~
laneylaney laneylaney 9 years
No blow outs, just little tension moments here and there that escalate into little things. pretty easily resolved within a reasonable amount of time and talking
SummerBaby SummerBaby 9 years
not going to lie, my hunnie and i have had a few bad ones, but its cuz we dont understand to communicate with one another, and we both get sooo worked up! but i can proudly say that as the years have gone one we have learn't about one another and everyday we are getting better and better! :)
Jennifer777 Jennifer777 9 years
We might have spat but we don't argue...we both like to talk things through...saves us the wasted time & energy of argueing...
kia kia 9 years
We can only recall one real fight between us so far. March 2005... after 3-for-1 drinks, an Interpol concert, and his roommate being a jerk while trying to screw with us. The rest of the time there is creative bickering :) that it is usually the result of at least one of us being hungry.
SillyBecky SillyBecky 9 years
My sweetie and I don't ever fight. If we don't agree on something, we just talk about it and are usually able to come to an agreement. As a rule, we never raise our voices at each other, and we are 100% honest with each other, regardless of whether it's a comfortable thing or not. I know it probably won't always be peachy-keen, but as long as we keep communicating with no problem, things will continue to be great!
k8-rckstr k8-rckstr 9 years
I wanted to say well over 10...except we never had make-up sex
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