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Dear Poll: How Many Orgasms Did You Fake in 2007?

Let's be real — sometimes it takes a little extra TLC in order for us women to reach the big O. Other times it comes easily and then there are those times when no matter what you do, it's just a lost cause. So what are you supposed to do you ask? Well fake it, of course!

According to Tracey Cox, iVillage's sex expert, only 30 percent of women orgasm from penetration alone. That number, mixed with so many extenuating factors can affect your ability to relax in the bedroom, so ladies, what I want to know is, how many orgasms did you fake in 2007?


CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 9 years
"i am honest with my husband" Well so am I. I honestly love him enough to make him feel good AND dont tell me that none of you who say "I wont lie to my husband" dont tell tales sometimes....really. Glass houses.
ishamarie ishamarie 9 years
Uhhh... I think I'm the only person that will admit, I've only had one orgasm and I've faked it everytime since then. Scared of an orgasm I think? I don't understand it.
veronicaraye veronicaraye 9 years
its really bf thinks if I don't make nosies or orgasm every time he's failed
Kitty_G Kitty_G 9 years
Dont have to fake. I get at least two per encounter.
laneylaney laneylaney 9 years
I never ever fake. There's no point. If I'm really tired or distracted and can't there then I'll be honest.
jennybop jennybop 9 years
i'm honest with my husband. it feels good either way.
gg4l86 gg4l86 9 years
Another thing..i cant ever get multiple ones, my friend is all over that one. She claimss that she gets them allll the time. Who there supposed to be a certain position or wut? Cuz this whole penetration doesnt cut it i need to be rubbed lol.
gg4l86 gg4l86 9 years
i've faked it cuz i didnt wana hurt the mans feelings, but thats just cuz it takes some extra time to heat up. But still either way it still feels good. I agree with "Fashion doll" I love it too all day everday Hurrayy for no orgasms ..(SOMETIMES) hahaha.
fashion_doll24 fashion_doll24 9 years
I have never had an orgasm yet, but that doesn't mean that I enjoy having sex with my BF tremendously. So what's there to fake? I love sex anyway, orgasm or no orgasm. If it's the cherry on top of the cake, I'll just have the chocolate and the icing I guess. But faking it wouldn't make my man happy at all.
llsand llsand 9 years
I've never climaxed by penetration ( only by clitoris stimulation) but i love every aspect of sex so much i moan all the time. I guess i've been close to climaxing by penetration many times but i just haven't gotten there yet ! :)
red4bonez red4bonez 9 years
I don' fake it. If it doesn't happen for me one day I love it because then I know it will happen the next day in a biiiiig waay :-D and plus i don't get bored because I don't expect it to happen every time. Sometimes it happens and i tell my bf it didn't (he knows it did tho) and that way I have even more fun the next day :-) aah fun stuff :-D
lilwildone1202 lilwildone1202 9 years
ive never faked it with my current boyfriend. other boyfriends yeah i had to bc they wanted me to come before they did and i think a snowball had a better chance in hell then me coming ... but my boyfriend now--he knows how to hit all the right buttons. and if it doesn't happen he isn't upset he just knows it'll happen next time.
JessBear JessBear 9 years
And I think it's funny that the percentage of girls choosing "none- I'm one of the lucky ones who can orgasm like that!" is almost exactly 30%, just like the sexpert said.
JessBear JessBear 9 years
I never fake. If I can't get there, I can't get there- and he tries extra hard next time. ;-) That being said, just because I'm not going to reach climax doesn't mean I don't still enjoy sex. I still moan and writhe and all that good stuff. He knows I'm enjoying it, he knows I love sex with him no matter what- why fake it? It just seems unneccesary to me.
Pir8Liz Pir8Liz 9 years
I don't fake it. My boyfriend is sometimes a hard worker, and he works until it pays off. I love that about him. It goes both ways, but he's less difficult than I am.
fashionhore fashionhore 9 years
I have faked it with the bf when I knew it just wasn't going to happen, but I told him that I was not going to get there. He understood and finished. It has nothing to do with him but, there are just those times when I know that the engine is not going to warm up!
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
I don't put on the theatrics but I have moaned when I really didnt feel anything.... I just hated the silence...
Marci Marci 9 years
I don't make a habit of it, but I have once in awhile. Sometimes I'm just tired and want to go to sleep and *that* isn't going to happen if he thinks I'm not satisfied.
Holly-J Holly-J 9 years
Faking doesn't help anyone. If I don't have one, and he doesn't ask about it, I may not say anything unless it happenes again, but best believe if he ask, I'm telling the truth, because I'll be damned if I get left out on the cel-O-brations another time!!
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
Well, I am one of that 30% that can by vaginal... in fact, I can't by sucks. But yeah I have one about 95% of the time we have sex. But, no I don't fake. I enjoy sex and when I don't have the big 'O' then I just do multiple times next time. My b/f is great about that. Nearly every time we have sex I have multiple orgasms.
TFS TFS 9 years
i dont fake it, i just dont ever have them. im one of the unlucky ones whos to hard to please with sex.
Marseeah Marseeah 9 years
I've never faked. I love love love every aspect of sex, and the orgasm is just the cherry on the icing on the cake... And. I enjoy everything so much, it's easy for me to orgasm. :)
SummerBaby SummerBaby 9 years
i dont fake it! i dont always have one.. but that doesn't mean that its not good!!! cuz it is!!... but really i haven't faked it in a LONG time!!... i dont need to!!... :) which is always a good thing!
ninjastarlett ninjastarlett 9 years
I have never faked one. O.O
spiceG spiceG 9 years
i am so with man does the best oral, so...I would NEVER fake that, but I just dont think that it is possible for me to orgasm through regular sex. i would LOVE to not fake it, but I just dont think it's's me. i still love the deed and enjoy the pleasure that I get, even if it isnt the big-O. haha..TMI yet?
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