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Dear Poll: How Often Do You Say "I Love You" to Your BF?

Dear Poll: How Often Do You Say "I Love You" to Your BF?

Just as some couples can’t keep their hands off each other and others save the physical affection for the bedroom, the same is true when it comes to saying “I love you.”

Even though every couple may be in love, the expression of those feelings is different for everyone. Some of us like to say "I love you" every time we talk to our significant other, while others say it few and far between. Of course there is no right way, so tell me ladies, how often do you say, “I love you”?


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dikke-kus dikke-kus 7 years
I tell my husband sometimes. Have you ever read about love in a book store? I read a book once that said love is a concept that many people don't really understand before they spout out the words. That everyone has an opinion what "it" is. And everyone says it means something else. How many times have I heard, Do you love me? Do you love me? Whispers from behind my shoulder. How does anyone really know? Maybe you have to respect a person first. I have been told I love you and then three hours later football is more of a concern.
Isista Isista 9 years
Me and my boyfriend try to say we love each other at least once a day. We don't want it to get over-used.
RoyalBlueMoss RoyalBlueMoss 9 years
I told him once. He was happy. I don't plan on telling him it again. He knows.
TFS TFS 9 years
BF as in best friend? or BF as in boyfriend? :/
Marci Marci 9 years
Every day. And like Meike, we show it through actions all the time, even when it's not being said. You can't tell a person too often that you love them.
Meike Meike 9 years
Yeah, I don't see why saying 'I love you' should be reserved for special occasions especially when love with your partner is a daily occurrence. Everyday we have together is special. And, it will continue to be shown through actions and spoken through words every single day for the rest of our lives.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
We say it anytime one of us is leaving the house or if the other does something nice for us. It's a lot of times per day.
knd-lovee knd-lovee 9 years
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 yrs and we still say it a lot to each other =] we say it to each other to remind each other of our love and it helps a lot keep the relationship flaming ;) heheh
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
My husband and I have been together for over 10 years, and we tell each other every day. Like another poster here, we would say it randomly -- I'll yell it from the kitchen, and he would reply back, etc. Also, we show each other we love each other, too. Saying it and showing it are not mutually exclusive.
divinedebris divinedebris 9 years
My husband and I say I love you all the time. Right now we're not together, he's in Iraq, and if we run out of things to say while talking on the internet, we just say I love you. We're silly, but we love each other.
Lambsauce Lambsauce 9 years
My boyfriend says it to me all the time (I tell him I worry if he goes for more than half an hour without saying it, haha :)). He says it pretty casually to me, but it hasn't lost its meaning! I rarely say it to him... largely because I never have the chance, he says it to me so much :)
BeautyXRush BeautyXRush 9 years
Never, me and my friends already know we'd be there for one another, and we love each other to death. It pretty much goes with being friends for more than 8 years.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
My boyfriend texts me once a day to say he loves me (We only see each a couple times a week, and we rarely talk on the phone), and when we're together, he'll look at me and tell me he loves me whenever he gets the opportunity. I think because I've been spoiled by him, I probably couldn't go a day without saying it anymore. He says it randomly, too. Like, I'll be getting ready to go out, and he'll come around behind me, wrap me in a hug and tell me he loves me. Or right as we're falling asleep, he'll say it. It's sweet and sincere, and the word has yet to lose its meaning for us.
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
alcook87 same here.
alcook87 alcook87 9 years
i agree, saying it too much is like saying hello and goodbye, even if you mean it. We say it when the feeling arises. and that makes it special, instead of it just being like a reflex.
hex913 hex913 9 years
After you say "I love you" too many times it looses it's meaning. Like when a cashier says "how are you doing today?" It might not always be meant, it's just a reflex. My BF and I *show* each other love, rather than say it.
heineken67 heineken67 9 years
We do almost automatically when saying goodbye, but also randomly (and often, meaningfully) when we're together as well. Sometimes he'll say it like once a minute just to see how many it takes before I stop saying it back. And sometimes we say something else like "I love shoes" just to be silly.
emalove emalove 9 years
My husband and I say it multiple times a day...always in the morning when we leave for work, everytime we talk on the phone during the day, and always before bed.
Sydney-C Sydney-C 9 years
My bf is a big stickler about it. He says it multiple times a day, and of course, because I do love him, I reciprocate. However, if it was by my prompting, I'd probably say it like once a week...I am always scared of the phrase getting played out and just not being more than an automatic response to something.
nancita nancita 9 years
We're an every other day sort of couple. I prefer for it not to be automatic but rather at random moments when I really mean it.
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
Everytime we hang up the phone :) And once in awhile I send a text to him saying "I love you" because I was thinking of him. And sometimes when we are laying together or smooching.
lilprincess lilprincess 9 years
We constantly say it! Sometimes totally randomly- like if I'm in the kitchen, he'll shout 'I love you!' or if he's upstairs I'll yell it to him. He randomly texts it to me during the day. In public we will just say it. We are really in love :)
fortunate-fool fortunate-fool 9 years
We both say it a lot, but he says it more than I do. At first we were worried that we'd say it too much and it would lose its meaning, but I think that there's a difference between a quick kiss and I love you and looking each other in the eyes and saying it, so I think we're good.
I say "I love you" more than he does, though he always chimes back with an "I love you, too". I say it often. He knows that I love him without saying it, and visa versa.
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