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Dear Poll: How Satisfied are You?

Typically, women are better communicators than men, but when it comes to sex, women seem to be hesitant about asking for what they want in-between the sheets. As we all know, men are not mind readers so it's important for us to be vocal about our needs and desires in addition to giving our men positive feedback when they are do something that feels good. Now it's pretty clear from some of the e-mails I receive that not everyone has the most perfect sex life, (although 41% of you said your oral sex life was great so be honest ladies, as it stands now, how is your sex life?


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Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 9 years
When does happen (which is not often) it's okay. I'm not opening up and i'm being selfish, so next time i'm doing whatever he wants so we can get there.
LadyLibertine LadyLibertine 9 years
absolutely and completely happy being celibate
minaminamina minaminamina 9 years
Honestly, I've never had an orgasm from anything but masturbating or oral sex, but I've still been enjoying sex more than ever with my current partner. He's really made me open up about what I want in bed - I still feel a bit silly telling him what I want in the heights of passion, but the silly grin on his face when he gets me to the breaking point makes it all worth it!
PrincessMaya PrincessMaya 9 years
Nonexistent and I am NOT happy about it. I'm torn about it too, because I don't really want an exclusive boyfriend, but I'm not interested in anymore one-night stands.
PinkNC PinkNC 9 years
You should gain the courage soon. I mean you deserve to be happy all the way around. And make sure he knows all of this too.
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
This is depressing - I've been lamenting recently that I want sex more than he does. We've been together for nearly a year (next week) and we have sex maybe twice a week if I'm lucky. It's bad because when I initiate and he doesn't want it, the feeling of rejection really knocks me for six and I feel terrible for even wanting to do anything in the first place. He'll lump on that he's tired or whatever. :( This doesn't stop him jerking off in the shower every morning and looking at porn though. So yeah.. could be better. A lot better.
Princess-Rebecca Princess-Rebecca 9 years
It's fantastic!
Tnkrbelli Tnkrbelli 9 years
I have the perfect b/f in bed(everywhere else too, he's lovely)! He is great at everything that we do when we are intimate and he's all about pleasing me first and him second. That's a nice change from my last boyfriend! He's also extremely romantic and we've done it on top of the Grand Canyon! :ROTFL: So he's an exhibitionist like mua, it's very fun and passionate and exciting with a burst of love on top...isn't that what it's all about? :LOVE:
Random2 Random2 9 years
Most people seemed shocked that my boyfriend and I even have sex because he's a fairly staunch conservative, but he just blows my mind! He's one of those who's up for sex whenever, alcohol doesn't affect his performance...
reese05 reese05 9 years
it is great but I want to change a thing or two....
AucuneRancune AucuneRancune 9 years
That picture is hot hot hot!!
Emiily Emiily 9 years
You guys are nuts! It's so nice to wake up in the middle of the night or morning to sweet kisses and caressing and sometimes even oral sex, and since you are the sleepy head who just woke up, he does all the work and you can orgasms and gently go back to sleep. It's nice. I wake up up all the time in the middle of the night, he loves it. We are usually too tired for morning sex though, because of sex the night before. We wear each other out.
tati33 tati33 9 years
I'm with Jeng112..
barjar1122 barjar1122 9 years
My husband is wonderful. He is the best and I let him know it every time. We both have had a number of previous partners but never discuss this. The more I let him know how great he is, the more he tries to outdo himself. I am very happy.
designergirl designergirl 9 years
I picked number 2. It could be a lot better, but it's mostly my fault at the moment. I switched to a birth control that killed my sex drive, so I have to wait 2 weeks until I can switch to something else.
Xtoxiiicah Xtoxiiicah 9 years
Um.. i picked sex life is pretty good, but i believe that i should move on.
Cymone Cymone 9 years
jeng- i wish my boyfriend would wake me up in the middle of the night!! we don't have sex alot but when we do its mindblowing! i wish we had more :(
Jeng112 Jeng112 9 years
Nonexistent but I'm happy about it. Nobody's waking me up in the middle of the night to fufill their needs...woooohooooo!
cravinsugar cravinsugar 9 years
I chose #1, although i would change frequency...since we live in different cities it can be difficult...however...nevermind. i can't talk about it right now. I have THREE WHOLE WEEKS to wait, but atleast i know it will be totally worth it.
partysugar partysugar 9 years
I need to find me some new guys to date....
i-am-elle i-am-elle 9 years
I chose #1... it just keeps getting better. :)
JustMe21 JustMe21 9 years
I picked the third choice but the reason it's not great is my fault, not his. I just can't seem to let go...
Emiily Emiily 9 years
I am 19, and before my current and long term boyfriend I had had sex, but it wasn't enjoyable and I was too young to know what I was doing. With my current boyfriend we haven't held anything back and have developed a wonderful sex life. Oral sex is amazing, both ways, and sex is mind blowing. I never thought I would ever feel this way, I thought I'd be struggling with orgasms until I am 40. But since I am so comfortable with this guy, and we have been seeing eachother for a while and are very much in love, sex is great. I think the key to great sex is comfort & communication. I advise anyone who is having trouble with their sex life to be up front, risk feelings (as long as you have a solution) and get your O ladies!!!
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