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Dear Poll: While Spooning, Do You Prefer the Inside or Outside?

Most of you like to cuddle after sex, but I was surprised to see that 73 percent of you like to cuddle all night long! Spooning is the most comfortable position to cuddle in, in my opinion, and if you agree, tell me, do you like to spoon or be spooned?


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cbaby28 cbaby28 8 years
the majority of the time i like to be spooned..but sometimes in the middle of the night i'll wake up and spoon him.
potterlove potterlove 8 years
Inside the spoon! There are times that I'm outside, but I'm usually inside. And besides, I'm always the short one, so yay!
princessya princessya 8 years
Even though I like to be spooned, it is often that I am the one doing the spooning. Even with him being a whole foot and a quarter taller than me.
Symphonee Symphonee 8 years
"Anyone else find that their boyfriend/husband/fiance screams like a little girl when frozen hands touch their stomachs?" Mines actually yelps more than screams!
Samantha30084 Samantha30084 8 years
Inside to sleep, outside if I want to reach over and change the mood.........
dm8bri dm8bri 8 years
When we cuddle I prefer to be the inside and the bf likes the outside - otherwise I tend to drape my leg over him and he hates that. But, we can't cuddle for long because I generate a LOT of heat.
mcockram mcockram 8 years
Inside. My husband's 6'4 with broad shoulders and I'm 5'5. Kind of hard to reach around him but I don't mind. I love his body.
linmaru linmaru 8 years
I love being on the inside, and my boyfriend loves me on the inside too. But my ex rather me spoon him, which through me off for a while, and it led to me finding out he was cheating on me with a mutual male friend.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 8 years
I like being the big spoon. I'm uncomfortable having my stomach touched when I'm sleeping.
anna_muffin anna_muffin 8 years
Both. I like to be the small spoon (especially when I need warming up), but like princess_eab I also tend to feel smothered after some time. Spooning him feels great. He's much taller, but very skinny, so it doesn't feel awkward.
CYL CYL 8 years
Take turns...I don't really get hot like everyone else..but it is nice to be able to sniff his hair...and neck while spooing. I am 5'7 and he is 6'2 so sometimes its a bit awkard but as long as the positioning is ok we are good ;)
krissycake krissycake 8 years
taking turns is super fun =)
Muirnea Muirnea 8 years
I like the inside. It makes me feel all safe and good. I don't like being on the outside at all, I feel distant from the other person b/c they are looking away and facing away etc. Actually...I think both people should just face each other, someone should be the backward spoon. LOL LOL. :D
Popeye Popeye 8 years
I love the outside! And yeah i can do it all night long! And sometimes i'll wake up and find out that the person that i'm spooning with has gone to the other side of the bed (people move in their sleep), I'll go and pull them closer to me again! :)
Talldiva45 Talldiva45 8 years
Inside - I just like the comfort and protective feeling even though my bf. is 6'4" - three inches taller than I. So it works out.
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
Inside. He's nearly a foot taller.
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
"Anyone else find that their boyfriend/husband/fiance screams like a little girl when frozen hands touch their stomachs?" YES!!! But I do it on purpose, so I can't really complain.
lildorothyparker lildorothyparker 8 years
Lol Jude I completely forgot about sporks! I totally hear you guys about having a an extra radiator around. I love the extra heat when my fingers and toes feel like icicles, but in the middle of the night it can be too much. Anyone else find that their boyfriend/husband/fiance screams like a little girl when frozen hands touch their stomachs?
sonya-ina sonya-ina 8 years
Inside, but I can't cuddle when I sleep.
facin8me facin8me 8 years
I didn't vote because there wasn't an option for me. I'm an equal opportunity spooner!
starangel82 starangel82 8 years
Inside for me until I get too hot and make him move away from me. :)
bebehaul24 bebehaul24 8 years
i love spooning my man!! does that make me weird? we're about the same height and i simply put the other arm under his pillow. i like being spooned too but for me it's a problem because i move around so much before i'm going to sleep and if i'm stuck in the same position for too long i feel smothered and have to move. spooning him gives me way more control over my movements and it's so comfy!
Symphonee Symphonee 8 years
I am the spoonee. He has me by a whole foot (me-5'2.5", him- 6'2.5") and at least a hundred pounds, so me being the spooner is just akward. Not to mention that he usually starts to sweat a little after me holding him and laying your face on a back covered with sweat is not cool.
chatondeneige chatondeneige 8 years
Definitely both. I'm surprised there's no option for that.
roseate roseate 8 years
definitely little spoon. I like to be held.
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