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Jealousy, especially when it comes to ex boyfriends or girlfriends can wreak havoc on your relationship. A common yet incredibly touchy question new couples often ask each other is, "How many people have you had sex with?" While it is important to know each other's sexual history (for safety purposes) it's a pretty loaded question that can easily create unnecessary trust issues or cause personal insecurities. While I happen to feel the question should be avoided altogether, ladies, tell me, would you rather have a higher number of sexual partners than your boyfriend, or would you want him to have more notches on the bed post?