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Dear Poll: Are You Honest With Your Friends?

When you hook up with a guy, what's the first thing you do the next day? Are you on the phone with your best friend giving up all the details from the night before, or do you tend to keep what happens in the bedroom to yourself? The ladies from Sex and the City didn't have any qualms dishing their goods over brunch, and while I love hearing other people's stories, I'm much more private about my love life. What about you? Do you like to swap stories with your girlfriends, or do you like to keep those intimate details between you and your man?


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vmruby vmruby 9 years
I have a couple of friends who have no problem discussing their sex lives and then there are some who don't and that's fine. For me,when it comes to what goes on behind closed doors ,i keep it all to myself.A girl's got to have some secrets. :)
sugarbritches sugarbritches 9 years
I keep things to myself for the most part. If I keep my mouth shut I don't have to regret things I've said.
purpleisafruit purpleisafruit 9 years
No! That stuff is private!
cottonpoots cottonpoots 9 years
It really depends on the situation.
Asia84 Asia84 9 years
I'm finding that my friends are more prudish than i thought. I couldn't say anything more than, "we hooked up. . .it was good". if i put emphasis on "good" they kinda give me this look like "what the heck". but 97% of my friends are in relationships, so maybe they just don't think like that anymore. and i don't get to hook up very often, (i'm picky about who i go on a date with, let alone hook up with).
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
If I do decide to open up it's only with very close friends but I still keep certain things to myself...
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
I don't talk too much about sex with my friends. I agree w/ Marci though, when I was having some single escapades it was super fun to dish on what was going on. But when it's like, for love, I guess it feels more private or more sacred or something. That, or it's been almost 3 years and it's not exactly a revelation that we're doin' it.
Marci Marci 9 years
I said 'no' but now that I think about it, when I was single, I definitely dished with my friends. Once I met my fiance though, I clammed up. I guess that should have been my first signal that this guy was different. :D
mlen mlen 9 years
if i am dating someone seriously then i tend to keep more private- i don't want my friends thinking about stuff we've talked about when they see him! but if its a guy i date a few times and its stops, then i dish. cause then there are usually good stories! though my bff and i have shared more details about the guys we are serious with- but those conversations are only between the two of us!
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
My friends and I rarley talk about our sexual lives. Well we do, but not the details of course!
chakra_healer chakra_healer 9 years
Like Misslarue, because I will be married soon I do not dish much. My BF deserves his privacy. Plus, call me paranoid, but I do not want to be one of those women who tells their best friends how great the husband is in bed or that he has a ginormous penis, and then find out one of the girls forgot about the sisterhood and came onto him because you talked him up too much. New techniques or tips are about the only discussion i'll have with the girls.
catita85 catita85 9 years
i share a few things, but keep most to myself.
emalove emalove 9 years
I am a pretty private person, but my best friends know pretty much everything about me. We're like the girls on SATC in the sense that we've known each other forever and we talk about EVERYTHING.
Marseeah Marseeah 9 years
Sometimes it feels as if I'd share the details, it'll be less special!
RockAndRepublic RockAndRepublic 9 years
I definitely share yet keep somethings to myself.
misslarue misslarue 9 years
My husband-no. But when I was single, I always talked details with the girls!
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