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Dear Quiz: Are You Approachable?

Have you ever noticed how there are some people who are endlessly surrounded by friends and seem to make new friends where ever they go? There's just something about their body language that makes them seem warm, inviting, and all around, approachable. So take this quiz to find out if you give off the welcoming vibe or if you're as cold as ice!


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lushylashes lushylashes 9 years
Wow, I have built a brick wall around myself. Thanks DearSugar. But I am not so sure that I mind it all that much. As long as I am happy right?
CoMMember13630786602261 CoMMember13630786602261 9 years
demeter, that is so funny that you say that! Im the same way, everytime I go to family functions or whatever, Im always the one playing with the kids and keeping them entertained...I dont know why, even with my BFs family. When I met my BFs entire family for the first time (as in aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents..etc) I sat down in a chair and after about five minutes of being there, his little three year old cousin was sitting on my lap flirting with me..I dont know what it is, but kids love me. Its the adults that I have a hard time with, ha!
darlene darlene 9 years
Chilly demeanor, I knew I'd get this one
Robyn-Tang Robyn-Tang 9 years
Chilly Demeanor. Yep, that's me alright. I'm incredibly defensive and socially retarded.
cottonpoots cottonpoots 9 years
"Chilly Demeanor - You've built a brick wall around yourself, and while no one is getting in, you're not letting yourself get out either. If you don't make some changes you might miss out on some amazing experiences." Nothing too surprising, considering the fact that I'm not a very social person in general. It's not that I'm antisocial, which is a very different classification - I'm just shy, and it's often difficult to start a conversation with someone.
demeter demeter 9 years
I have a chilly demeanor. Which is what I expected anyway. It's funny because my dad and I were talking the other day about how I was only approachable to kids. I don't like people, what can I say.
rosey_y rosey_y 9 years
I also didn't need to take a quiz to know that I'm chilly! I'm confident, but very introverted. I live inside my own head, and I'm quite happy with that thank you very much! When I was a kid my favourite thing to do was build elaborate forts in my bedroom, which no one else was allowed to enter. I'd happily play in there for hours alone. (Nothing's changed really. :p ) I know I intimidate a lot of people but I don't really care. If they're someone I'll be around regularly, I'll get to know them sooner or later and they'll see my silly, happy side.
robert's_girl robert's_girl 9 years
arrogant, intimidating, cold, stuck up, chilly, ice queen, frozen, shy, standoffish ... all things I have heard before so the chilly demeanor result wasn't surprising. I am shy, but I'm trying!
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
Warm and Inviting You're the definition of approachable. You've just got an aura that gives off welcoming vibes, but you know when to keep your distance, too.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
Warm and Inviting. Actually, I know this is true. I'm trying to be chilly (because I want to be left alone). LOL
stina829 stina829 9 years
Chilly Demeanor... No surprise. I'm really shy but people take that as me being b*tchy. The people who actually try to get to know me without judging me at first know that I'm really not b*tchy or have a "chilly demeanor"... :)
Sun_Sun Sun_Sun 9 years
warm and inviting! im a little surprised. i HATE meeting new ppl cuz im shy. but i've really had to change since i moved to a new city and had to start making new acquaintances and friendships. its been hard, but im getting better at it =) just like allourregrets alot of ppl who didnt know me always though i was a stuck up bi*ch and/or intimidating! and thats sooo not me!
CoconutPie CoconutPie 9 years
Chilly demeanor. I agree.
nancita nancita 9 years
What a fun quiz! I'm glad to know I'm warm and inviting. I've really been making an effort in recent years.
Poster-of-a-Girl Poster-of-a-Girl 9 years
I'm chilly too.. no surprise there... I try though
cvandoorn cvandoorn 9 years
Hahaha chilly demeanor. I can be really warm and inviting if I feel like it. Otherwise I like people to make an effort with me. I guess I come across as arrogant or intimidating. Lots of guys have told me so! I don't care.
bellaressa bellaressa 9 years
Warm and Inviting - I always have people talking to me and sometimes I even strike up convos with people. Me to a T.
SugarCat SugarCat 9 years
Everyone either thinks I'm a b*tch or a meek little shy thing. People who know me laugh when other people say I'm shy. If those people think I'm shy I must not really like them, lol ;) I tend to focus on one group, would love to have a bigger circle but I have a hard time letting people in.
erratic-assassin erratic-assassin 9 years
lol me too allourregrets...everyone outside my circle think I'm this big ol' bitch just cuz I'm quiet and reserved. It's not that I'm shy though, I just dont care to be social and people cant understand WHY, lol....and I guess they have a point...who DOESNT want friends and people to talk to? It just doesn't appeal to me.
CoMMember13630786602261 CoMMember13630786602261 9 years
I dont have to take the quiz to answer this. NO, im not at all. most people think Im a huge bitch when they first meet me because I am PAINFULLY shy. My friends call me the silent assassin because i am "so quiet and reserved until I get to know someone, then you better watch out!!" I cant even tell you how many times someone has told one of my friends "Im kinda scared of Jennifer" or "I really dont think jennifer likes me" but then they just explain that Im actually a very nice person, I just have to warm up to you first. :)
almost-famous almost-famous 9 years
Warm and Inviting You're the definition of approachable. You've just got an aura that gives off welcoming vibes, but you know when to keep your distance, too. Weird result when no one hardly ever approaches... :/
designergirl designergirl 9 years
Chilly demeanor. I'm trying, but social anxiety makes it difficult.
erratic-assassin erratic-assassin 9 years
chill something....demeanor? I forgot haha um, yeah...I'm not a social butterfly. I don't feel the need to please everyone around me. As long as me and my close peeps are cool, then it's all good!
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