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Did You Have Sex on the First Date With Your Current Partner?

Thanks to the sexual revolution, women can have sex whenever they want to without too much social opprobrium. That being said, some people think that if you want a monogamous relationship, there's one hard-and-fast rule: don't have sex on the first date. Since blanket statements never account for the realities of the individuals involved, there are always exceptions to "the rule."

Have you ripped your date's clothes off on the first date and then found yourself dating for some length of time, or actually having a relationship?


sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
Yes! We'd known each other over 2 years and just wanted to rip each others clothes off by this point, though. ;) The "date" was just a formality. We've been together over a year now and live together happily.
LemnFresh LemnFresh 8 years
Not on the first date, no. He didn't even give me a kiss! (Not that I didn't want one...) But we texted each other a lot talking about when we'd "make-out" and I was hesitant to go all the way at first just because I didn't want him to think of me as easy, but I changed my mind and don't regret it at all. We are still together and I am utterly in love with him.
princessya princessya 8 years
I ended up marrying him! :)
kty kty 8 years
nope,i waited after a week to do so
BellaVida12 BellaVida12 8 years
We did and we're still together.
redchick152 redchick152 8 years
i've done it on the 1st date and other times made them wait....but i'm still single, so i guess it just depends on the chemistry and the person. sometimes there's just a huge attraction and you can't wait to rip off soemone's clothes....actually that happened to me at a wedding last saturday....whoops...but i will be seeing him again this weekend.
boredgourdless boredgourdless 8 years
Yes I did! We'd only met one time before, and were totally gaga over each other. Have been together three years, got married last month!
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 8 years
Yes we did. Been together one and a half years now.
CrazyBella CrazyBella 8 years
I never thought I would have sex on the first date, but i was young and we had been friends for a while before we tried going for a relationship...5 yrs (plus) and we are still together. Rare, but i guess my instincts were right about him
Bella321 Bella321 8 years
Yes he brought me back to his place carrying me to his bedroom upstairs we were both very eggar to get at eachother we had two rounds of sex one before the shower one after it was like AMAZING!!
danakscully64 danakscully64 8 years
No, My current boyfriend (who will be my husband eventually) was my first and we waited a few weeks from our actual first date (we met online and talked for a week before seeing each other in person). I knew when I met him he was the one, but up until that point, I swore that I'd wait for until marriage. :p
AmandaKrups AmandaKrups 8 years
lizzyopal, you moved in after your first date? Were you friends before you started dating? Why did you decide to do that? Did everyone think you were crazy?
lizzyopal lizzyopal 8 years
we had sex on our first date AND we've been living together since that day! been together for nearly three years and plan on getting married in the spring :D
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