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OK, here we go. Well I was a 22-year-old virgin till a couple of days ago. Here’s the thing I knew this guy for a while now more of a friend level nothing serious well we had conversations about sex and he assumed that I was sexually active and I never corrected him or implied otherwise. So anyways, we went out a couple of times well one night we went out for drinks and things got a little heated I didn’t know whether to tell him or just go with it well I decided to just go with it and not let him know. I suppose because I was embarrassed of the whole being 22 and a virgin. So I was wondering should I have told him or do I still tell him or did he figure that out with me not being experienced. I didn’t bleed but it did hurt a little of course but I didn’t make it obvious so I think and he hasn’t mentioned it.