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A Do or a Don't: Sharing a Bed With Your Girlfriends

A Do or a Don't: Sharing a Bed With Your Girlfriends

In high school and even in college, I happily crawled right in bed with my friends when I was staying with them; in fact, I might know some of my closest friends’ sleeping habits better than their significant others. But as we’ve gotten older, sleeping in bed with a girlfriend has become less appealing, not to mention so many of us are already sharing our beds to begin with!

While I still think it's fun to have sleepovers from time to time, there are some people who feel strongly that being bed buddies with your BFF is a total don't. So ladies, is there a certain age when sleeping together is just inappropriate or weird? Weigh in and tell me your thoughts — is sharing a bed with your girlfriend a do or a don't?


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karadisexo karadisexo 9 years
i have three roommates & two have boyfriends, so while they're sleeping at their bf's place, me & my one roomie sometimes watch movies & sleep in her huge bed together! it's's like a four year sleepover haha
else411 else411 9 years
For me personally it's a don't. Other than my boyfriend I'm not into others being in my bed.
bpeach253868 bpeach253868 9 years
I so don't have an issue w/this. Especially if it's my BFF. I think it's about the comfort level you have w/that person.
grys grys 9 years
this is not even an issue, i don't see what the big deal is... me and my friends share beds or even the sofa all the time...specially after a night of hard partying...
ashleycheer ashleycheer 9 years
Not a big deal at all. if you're best friends, you're best friends! It's not like you're going to have sex or be touching or anything. if there were 2 seperate beds, I wouldn't share.
tlsgirl tlsgirl 9 years
I've done it recently on vacay. I don't see the big deal.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
I wouldn't want a roommate situation where I was sharing a bed with a female friend for years, but occasional sleep-overs are still fun. I have no problem cuddling with friends in a bed, and it makes me feel like I have the sisters I never got.
shellbelle1 shellbelle1 9 years
Doesn't bother me at all!
lawchick lawchick 9 years
I don't think it's weird. But like Jaime said, when you're used to sleeping with your husband, you don't sleep as well with someone else in the bed.
hottpink hottpink 9 years
Not weird at all and I am 26.
amanda02215 amanda02215 9 years
my friends and i share beds all the time... especially when we're on vacation or after a late night out to save money on cabs/have an excuse to go to brunch in the morning!
LOVErickii LOVErickii 9 years
i dont mind at all when it comes to my besties
MeggyPoodles MeggyPoodles 9 years
Not a big deal! I'm 21 and in college, so this happens often after nights out! Just this past weekend, I shared a bed with my friend. The funny thing was, it was my boyfriend's bed. He got home later than us, and had to sleep on the couch! haha
bbkf bbkf 9 years
I've shared a bed with my friends lots of times; never gave it a second thought.
dragonfly79 dragonfly79 9 years
Not a big deal to me.
Martini-Rossi Martini-Rossi 9 years
Hey whatever the age my girlies can sleep with me! I dont see an issue with that, heck I still nap with my mama at times. No biggie.
kiwitwist kiwitwist 9 years
Not an issue if there are no other beds around. But my one friend snores BAD, so I would prefer a different room thanks LOL!
Advah Advah 9 years
Reminds me of that episode of Grey's Anatomy, when Cristina sleeps in Meredith's bed when they're both sad. I thought it was super cute.
missyd missyd 9 years
Not wierd at all. But I agree with Jennifer, I think as you get older this tends to occur to you less often.
LadyP LadyP 9 years
The only person I share a bed with is my hubby. If friends stay over b/c of being drunk or whatever, they sleep on the couch.
indreams8318 indreams8318 9 years
for me its not a big deal with my closest friends. plus in the winter its warmer!
pink-elephant pink-elephant 9 years
I mainly only do this with besties and it's a lot of fun, except maybe not for her because I tend to move around a lot and talk in my sleep...
miriah15 miriah15 9 years
Not weird at all! I'm 20, and my besties and I still share a bed all the time, sometimes more than two of us squeeze in there! And since I'm in college, I guess I'll also let you know that my 53 year old mother and her best friend share a bed whenever they feel like having a sleepover as well. Gotta love your girlfriends! How else are you supposed to talk each others ears off until you're half asleep and probably not even speaking English anymore?
maybeimnot maybeimnot 9 years
Not weird at all!
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