I've never faced the dilemma of liking someone who sucked in bed. For some reason, I imagine that the qualities that drew me to that person would make them magically attentive, creative and fun in bed.
I hear it happens though (don't hate me for being lucky!), and Lily Allen's single "Not Fair" is pretty brutal about someone who's not only selfish, he just doesn't know what he's doing. “You never make me scream," she sings. "It’s not fair, it’s really not OK.” Ouch. Have you ever dumped someone for being bad in bed?