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Do Tell: How Many Men Have You Dated at the Same Time?

You've heard me say, on numerous occasions, that you have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince, and in a previous poll, 54 percent of you agreed that dating multiple people at once is a good idea. Why waste time, right? While I've never felt comfortable seeing more than one person at a time, let me live vicariously through you. Ladies, do tell: How many people have you dated at the same time?


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dikke-kus dikke-kus 8 years
uh oh. I tried that double dating stuff before and became double trouble. I tried but karma got me everytime. I learned my lesson when two of them showed up and sat in my livingroom together. Remeber you should give your address just to one of them.
bellechic bellechic 9 years
Three. It's really hard to juggle them, especially on the weekends. But, I wouldn't advise it- in the end you can only date on guy.
2hot2 2hot2 9 years
6!!!!!!!! And I don't regret it =)
chicaparati17 chicaparati17 9 years
2 at once..when I was young and single! It was very fun!
melda melda 9 years
three of them live in London wow if i wasn't that stupid when younger i would move to London with one of them lol oh and they are geek boys like studied one in oxford and other in prince college or queens college i don't remember ah they wouldn't guess if i myself didn't tell them uhm
melda melda 9 years
Four.. and i was so stupid that even told them about one another and he was soooo mad and like heart broken? it was really really funny situation now i really like to talk about them with my current boyfriend but then he will think i am doing that same thing with him and i don't want lose him lol oh they where very handsome rich sexy young boys i loved them all and they were like in love with me hehe they still sometimes call me and i talk with them i laugh they say they don't want to talk about what i did to them but still kept my pictures and call me and write emails to me i love rich boys
jodie_ohlala jodie_ohlala 9 years
swtsunkisses88 swtsunkisses88 9 years
I went on dates with 3 people.. but nothing really emerged out of one of them. So I basically just stuck it to the two until things got more serious with one, and then i kept my relationship with the other strictly friends only. It was really emotionally exhausting, and I dont think I would do it again. Afterall, I wouldnt like to find out a guy Im going on dates with is taking multiple girls out!
laurafox laurafox 9 years
Three. It was exhausting but really fun :-D
designerel designerel 9 years
I dated two at a time, and stopped seeing one when I realized I like the other more. Would I do it again? Probably not... even though I know it's best not to get emotionally invested in just one guy, dating two at a time was just too hectic for me.
stbhms4243 stbhms4243 9 years
I dated 2 guys at the same time, but I was honest with both of them about it. I told them that I liked both of them, and wanted to see both of them. Neither was happy about it, but they went along with it. Once one of the guys put an insane amount of pressure on me to sleep with him, I cut it off with him. I told him I wasnt going to sleep with him, and he didnt respect that. That helped me decide that the other guy was the right one for me.
n_i_k n_i_k 9 years
vanyvrgs vanyvrgs 9 years
Only for about a period of give or take a year did I ever date more than one guy at once -- sometimes 3 at a time. I could not keep track and then told myself one at a time. Works best for me!
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
I've had some "crossovers".. naughty me. I've never gone beyond kissing when there has been more than one on the scene though.
TheMissus TheMissus 9 years
When I dated casually, I would "see" about three different guys at a time. But eventually one would win out.
CaterpillarGirl CaterpillarGirl 9 years
Never dated two people at once. Its too emotionally confusing.
Marci Marci 9 years
Well, dating and having a relationship are two entirely different things. Dating is just that; going out on dates with different people, hoping to meet someone to have a relationship with. And for me, dating did not include sex. That's saved for real relationships. I dated 3 guys at the same time at one point. I got a kick out of it at first, but after awhile I realized I was starting every sentence on a date with 'Did I tell you this already?' because I couldn't remember what I'd talked about with who. That was it for me. I found it too confusing to date more than one person at a time.
lickety-split lickety-split 9 years
2 that i saw every week (i met 2 great guys, impossible i know). but in college i worked at the medical school cafe my sr. year and it was a dating dream. all these med students would come in and i'd have lunch with one of them just about every day and i'd go out on date maybe 3 or 4 times a week on average with different ones. but none of them had time for a relationship, they would constantly cancel because they were on call and got called in, studying, families wanted to see them, etc. it was a nice situation because i had just broken up with a serious boyfriend and i didn't want anything heavy. and the guys just wanted a dinner date, someone to talk to once in awhile on the phone. all of them were really nice guys. i really recommend this as a way to meet men, no pressure at all. when i went off to grad school one of the guys tracked me down through a friend that was at the same school and we ended up dating for awhile. occasionaly i run into one of these guys and it's fun to see how they are doing and catch up. one of them is a bizillionaire because of lazak (however you spell it) surgery but never got married. another one has 8 kids!
Sarah10563 Sarah10563 9 years
I saw 2 guys at the same time last summer, they both considered the relationships very serious, and thats when I had to cut one of them off, the anxiety of seeing one when I was out with another were too much for me to handle, I don't know how some girls can do it, you have to be very organized and devious which I am not. It was definitely a one time experience for me!! haha.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
Bascially one at a time..... But even when Im in a relationship I'm on the prowl for something better....But I would never blatantly cheat... Id have to break it off with the 1st one before I really pursued someone
the-makeup-blogette the-makeup-blogette 9 years
When I was single, I was seeing 2 or 3 guys at the same time. Once I am stuck with one that of cos it is only 1!!
lilwildone1202 lilwildone1202 9 years
only one--even if we weren't "exclusive" i find it exhausting to try and date more than one person at a time...
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
yea, like both guys were not "offical" with me. The second I become someone's girlfriend I DO NOT see any other guys.
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
I think maybe two but like ashcwebb I didn't give up the goods and when one got more serious I cut loose the other guy...
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
I saw saw two guys at once, but the most I did was kiss them. Once things started to get serious with one of them, I cut it off with the other.
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