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Do Tell: What Do Your Girlfriends Talk the Most About?

When girls get together, it's a time for them to talk about everything from their careers to their love lives, and all the fun stuff in between. And even if you have a few different groups of friends, there are usually reoccurring topics that get touched upon each and every time. When I'm with my friends, we catch up first but the conversation always finds its way back to men, dating, and relationships. Does this sound familiar? Do tell, what's the most common topic of conversation between you and your girlfriends?


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JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 8 years
We mostly talk about ourselves!! We always get back to talking about our old times. So much fun.
ilanac13 ilanac13 8 years
it's definitely interesting how you can just meet someone and you'll end up talking about relationships and things like that. it seems to be the easiest thing to talk about and to relate to since i'm sure that everyone has a shared experience. i don't usually hang out with too many people since i don't have a ton of friends where i live but when i do chat - its' about either TV shows or men.
bbkf bbkf 8 years
Work, mutual friends, politics, current events. We almost never talk about relationships. I guess because we're all in happy long-term relationships, there's not really much to talk about!
sw33tlovin sw33tlovin 8 years
any constant that's in our lives. a lot of the times we talk about what's bothering us, and there's always something. i hope my pessimism isn't rubbing off on them. lol. i've read so many books where men say they have friends where they rarely speak about things that are important to them. i don't think it's true for many men, but for the percentage who feel that way .. i can't even imagine. i guess that's why it's fiction. lol. everything i talk about with my friends is important to me and vice versa.
ms-jamerz ms-jamerz 8 years
We talk about everything! Old times, boy drama, our futures, our sex lives, our jobs, our random thoughts, food, tv/movies. I love them.
lickety-split lickety-split 8 years
autism. it's a joke w/ our families. if one of us calls the other and they aren't there we say "wanna talk about autism" and everyone laughs. it's an obsession because of our kids on the autism spectrum.
Pallas-Athena Pallas-Athena 8 years
We talk about everything equally.
californiagirlx7 californiagirlx7 8 years
We usually talk in general. Classes, our friends, the boys (although I usually don't have anything to share so I listen to other people's problems), or random topics that come to mind while we're hanging out like politics, clothes, our plans for the weekend, etc.
looseseal looseseal 8 years
This is going to maybe sound kinda lame, but we mostly talk about what we've been watching on TV, movies we've seen and what sites we've been finding on the internet. Beats gossiping about other people behind their backs. Ah, we're such geeks. About 50% of what we say is some kind of geeky reference. But of course that's not ALL we talk about, there's also the general stuff about everything else that's been going on in our lives, too. Work, school, families, etc.
HeidiMD HeidiMD 8 years
Most of our conversations are either gossip-y or work-related! My best friend and I both work in the same field, so the conversation inevitably turns nerdy after awhile.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 8 years
jopperma jopperma 8 years
Boy drama... Which does get a little old, especially since I am engaged and don't have any boy drama to compete with that of my single-on-line-dater girls. I mostly talk them off ledges and keep them from doing anything too crazy...
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 8 years
Our current preoccupations (business projects, grad school, work, etc.). We update each other about our families, hubbies, etc. Or simply, we just enjoy each other's company. Or we talk about whatever is at hand -- the yummy food we ordered, the nice weather, etc.
chocolatine chocolatine 8 years
Jobs, shoes/clothes, travel, relationships, our childhoods, books, science/philosophy/technology, politics.
Shopaholichunny Shopaholichunny 8 years
Our boyfriends, our sex lives :oops:, college, classes, money, fashion, family, old memories etc. :)
Jude-C Jude-C 8 years
Definitely men and relationships. Gossip, too.
MissJules5x MissJules5x 8 years
guys, clothes, jewelry, jobs or the lack thereof
princess_eab princess_eab 8 years
We talk about classes we're taking, advisors (I'm in grad school), jobs, traveling, and yes, men and relationships! Also, other friends.... sometimes.
amloveaffair amloveaffair 8 years
Sex! Or old memories! I love my best friends because we were really close in middle school and then in high school we really drifted apart. Now that we've graduated we're best friends again and it's like nothing has changed really.
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