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Do Tell: What's the Longest You've Gone Without Sex?

Do Tell: What's the Longest You've Gone Without Sex?

If you're in a relationship, chances are you have a pretty steady sex life, but if you're single and don't believe in casual sex, I bet you wish you were getting a little more action! I'm pretty sure we've all experienced a dry spell here and there, so ladies, do tell, what's the longest you've gone without sex?

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testadura67 testadura67 6 years
About 2 and a half years. I'd broken up with my fiance and transfered to a new college and swore celibacy until I graduated and had my life together. Best graduation present ever!
tayrose tayrose 7 years
3 months, at most.
Venus1 Venus1 7 years
About 3 - 4 weeks and it was not fun!
1starr1 1starr1 8 years
I'm sooo happy I came accross this site. I thought I was the only one that wasn't having sex. It has been 2 years and a few weeks for me. 1 year and 1 month of that I was with someone and we didn't do it at all, then I finally had the courage to leave him and developed a crush on this one guy I told him finally that I was really into him 11 months after I developed that crush on him but I told him in a really horney way and then I found out he had a girlfriend so I felt like a complete jack ass and now wishing I hadn't done that (u know what though, he should feel pretty damn flattered I even sent him that facebook message!) So in total 2 years and a few weeks and then some.
AmberBug AmberBug 9 years
Funny question because I just broke up with my boyfriend recently and he wanted to wait until marriage. I am 27 years old and divorced... I decided I would try and stay with him even though I don't have the same beliefs about waiting for sex. It has been about 1 1/2 years and I couldn't take it anymore. So 1 1/2 years for me... but unwillingly (in a way).
Pixie462 Pixie462 9 years
2yrs. and counting. I could go the rest of my life without it. I'm just not interested in it. Main reason why I'm not in a relationship - he wants it but I really don't.
t0xxic t0xxic 9 years
LMFAO VAL!!! Other then the periods after kids the longest was 7 months when then bf now hubby was deplyed to kuwait for the iraqi war. Now Im looking at 6weeks to 6 more months bc hes going to training :( The longest weve ever gone since being married that didnt involve bc we medically couldnt is maybe 4 days.
yaliyah yaliyah 9 years
2 and a half yrs and counting... It's been a rough stretch of time, but the longer I go without the more I think it's worth waiting for someone special. I've also made good friends with my vibrator during this time :)
lolabella lolabella 9 years
five or six months over the past 20 years - and that was just once in my life. wow, i feel old.
jennybop jennybop 9 years
little over a year. but now, since i'm married, maybe 2 weeks
MsWalton MsWalton 9 years
The longest I've gone w/out sex was 1 month. I believe I suffer from the "man mentality" because I'm a fan of casual sex (unless I'm in a relationship).
HustleRose HustleRose 9 years
It's been 4 months. :(
bbkf bbkf 9 years
I haven't gone longer than 2 weeks since I was 14, and I've never had sex with someone I wasn't in a relationship with.
d_ford d_ford 9 years
10 months, and 5 months of that were in a relationship. Let's just say that relationship didn't last. I was such a bitch for those 10 months and when I finally did have sex, I was soooo happy. I vowed never to go that long again. After that I think the longest was about 4 weeks. I was definitely enjoying my sex until I met my husband. Now we don't go more than a week.
andharri andharri 9 years
2 weeks max.
brantsmama brantsmama 9 years
the longest stint for me was 7 months.. but my husband and I have been married for 5 years and he's a Marine so he's gone alot so i'd say we have been sexless for almost 3 out of those 5 years. it sucks.. lol
tkoblondee tkoblondee 9 years
:rofl:lickety split
reeeeka reeeeka 9 years
The longest? Was over a year and half.
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