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Do Tell: What One Thing Would You Change About Your Relationship?

Many of you are making personal resolutions for 2009 such as losing weight, exercising more, or quitting smoking. Now is also a great time to think about your significant other and the changes you'd like to make in your relationship. I'm not talking about how you'd like to see your partner change — like you wish he'd stop leaving dirty underwear on the bathroom floor — I'm talking about a change you'd like to make as a couple. Maybe you want to have more morning sex, or you'd like to finally move in together; whatever it is, every relationship can benefit and become stronger from a little change, so share your thoughts below.


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dikke-kus dikke-kus 8 years
Money. We need more of that. Everything else is good.
myprivatespace myprivatespace 8 years
We are in a LDR. I hope he starts believing more in me. He fantasizes me having multiple affairs
lauraxtc lauraxtc 8 years
We have a dirty past. lol.
divinedebris divinedebris 8 years
Fix our sex life. Other than that, we're really happy.
TrnSmleShiftRpt TrnSmleShiftRpt 8 years
My boyfriend is absolutely so sweet and amazing, but I wouldn't hate a bit more romance. I always think of cute little things I'd do if I was in his position, but I have to remember, he's just a guy and doesn't always think that way. Overall, he's amazing, but just a small change would be sweet.
nicole815 nicole815 8 years
Vacation more...although its not really a relationship thing. not really possible due to finances at the moment. Vegas in September though...
alwayssmile8 alwayssmile8 8 years
nothing really. for the first time, nothing. wow i hadn't even realized that. i'm so happy:D haha
cmcgra20 cmcgra20 8 years
I love my relationship as is, but I wouldn't mind taking the next step and moving in together sometime this year
vmruby vmruby 8 years
Absolutely nothing.....
macchiatolove macchiatolove 8 years
lol, miriah! I hear you! mine is a very, very new relationship, so all I'd really want is to slowly get to know each other and to continue to enjoy being in each other's company. I'd like to find something lasting most of all :)
fancifulfabi fancifulfabi 8 years
I wouldn't change a thing, honestly. He's perfection :)
CYL CYL 8 years
Mmmm just wish I could help my bf be lessed stressed out from work and life. Oh and maybe a bit more PDA but my bf is great in private, just doesn't like pawing me or kissing me that much in public :) buti L ike pawing him all the time :) hahhaa.
miriah15 miriah15 8 years
I know, HAVE a relationship. That would be nice lol.
jessie jessie 8 years
i would change nothing!
MegN MegN 8 years
Like many others I wouldn't mind living closer to the boy I would like to have a relationship with.
MandeeLei MandeeLei 8 years
I'd invite more spontaneity and adventure into our lives. Working and going to school gets you in a routine. We never even went on our honeymoon and have never had the time or money to have a vacation and that is something I decided that no matter what we should do this year :]
hyzenthlay20 hyzenthlay20 8 years
I have exactly the same wish as Fallen85! Our couch is uncomfortable and not wide enough to cuddle comfortably for very long (add to that the fact that our dog likes to cuddle up there with us, and it's even harder to fit!). So, instead my boyfriend sits in his ugly (but comfy) ratcheting La-z-Boy. We are already going rock climbing more, which is great :) Spending the time together and working out at the same time, doing something we love has been wonderful!
serenavallentine serenavallentine 8 years
ilanac13, that's exactly what i want from my husband! he is so down/depressed all the time he lets it seep into our relationship. he's in the military and currently posted overseas but right before he left he finally realized that he was depressed and there was nothing wrong with "us" but more so him. so for '09 all i want is for him to work on getting happier and for me to be as supportive as i can.
chatondeneige chatondeneige 8 years
I'd like for us to live closer together - like, fewer than five hours away. We're working on it this within the year! :)
kia kia 8 years
Congrats oohsexypenguin. I wish you two all the happiness in the world. For us I want to work on being consistent with our working out together.
lily3484 lily3484 8 years
We just got engaged for the New Year! I am so excited to ring in the new year on such a great note. As a couple, I really want to stay focused on us and not get lost in all the wedding stress.
le-romantique le-romantique 8 years
I'm not sure what i'd change... we live 400 miles apart, which of course sucks, but we see each other every month and we both have busy work lives right now so maybe its not such a bad thing for now... def would love to move in with him by the end of the year or in 2010.
clareberrys clareberrys 8 years
more date nights and listening to the little things more....but I think we are doing pretty well right now actually!!!
Myst Myst 8 years
living in the same country.
glampop20 glampop20 8 years
I'd probably change myself in order to change the relationship. I tend to harp on the little things and that usually is the spark to a major fight. If I try not to sweat the small stuff, I think we would both be better off!
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