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Do Tell: What Would you Change to Improve your Sex Life?

Do you have to share a bathroom with your husband and wish you had your own? Do you want a smaller bed so you could cuddle more even though he prefers to spread out in the California King? Some couples don't have a hard time keeping that flame burning all the time, but others need a little more TLC and a little less distraction to feel "in the mood." So ladies, do tell, what would you change in your home to help improve your love life?


mira1988 mira1988 8 years
I wouldnt have it as often
Sofiababy Sofiababy 10 years
we're both students, so basically i wish we had more time. and space! (dorms! eeek) tchan, i concur! i wish we had a tub =]
Danigirl77 Danigirl77 10 years
I share a 3 bedroom SFH with my roomate and the only thing that seperates us is my bathroom... And I can be a little vocal... but not since we moved in.. I think that kinda hinders the the mood.
LadyLibertine LadyLibertine 10 years
No help needed, none is a good number hehe
c0rkie c0rkie 10 years
i ditto cravinsugar :D
kai3 kai3 10 years
who knows...I just need help! he's always ready and I seldom am! I've got a 10 month old, that may have something to do with it, I'm exhausted. But I don't want that to be an excuse. we do have a tv in the room but that's because he stays up 2 hours later than I do and if it's not in the room then he'd probably be in the other room sweetonfamily! any ideas
first_lady first_lady 10 years
mid-day sex, because he always got too tired at night. which is sucks, because I got fired up at night, hihih lol
melda melda 10 years
i will throw out tv and wont let him bring his job to home
reese05 reese05 10 years
I work during the day and my boyf works at night time so our schedule greatly affects our sex life! So this is the first thing that i would change, I want him to get a day job so we're on the same page..
Green Green 10 years
I agree with the no TV. When my friend first got married I thought she was crazy and now that I think about it. That's a great idea.
sweetonfamily sweetonfamily 10 years
One thing is you should never have a TV in your room. If you have kids a routine is good so that you know what time you and your husband have your "together" time. Focus on making your room romantic you can start by something cheap and simple as lighting. If you want suggestions I would be glad to help I do this for a living.
PreppyDot PreppyDot 10 years
I am a sleepy head and my bf is a night owl who only needs like 4 hours of sleep a night, so for us, if we could meet in the middle with sleep so we could go to bed at the same time or even wake up at the same time, life would be a lot easier. I hate to lay in bed on a Saturday or Sunday and wait for him to wake up. I usually just start my day and for us the morning is always the best.
Arnage_RL Arnage_RL 10 years
i'm right with you there on the tired factor, #8! both of us work full time, and by the time we get home from the gym, cook & eat dinner, clean up, and get ready for bed, it's bedtime - and not "bedtime, wink-wink" but "i have a huge meeting in new york with potential investors so i have to get up early to catch the 5am train" bedtime.
MamaD MamaD 10 years
Well in our case it would be to have our adult "starving artist" son to move out. We love him dearly and support him, but sometimes we just want to have sex in the livingroom!! Luckily the bedrooms are at opposite ends of the house so no problem with privacy! For us it's just a case of spontineity and location.
MiyabiNa MiyabiNa 10 years
ummm...i would change how tired we both are by the end of the day. I'm an instructor who runs around with students all day and he works construction and attends night classes during the week. We both also work part time on the weekends. It really tires us both out and sometimes we're both too "knocked out" to be able do anything..or even wake up for it lol =/
Muirnea Muirnea 10 years
I would throw out any t.v.'s. and possibly the computer too.
Goja Goja 10 years
I think I would throw out all the computers hehe, my husband is a computer programmer so you can imagine his addiction to those things, I can't win with this machine
yoan190 yoan190 10 years
I wished we have a bigger bed room (we have a very small one, right under the roof. So typical German building, hehehe) and bathroom so we could have a bathtub there...
cravinsugar cravinsugar 10 years
I would move us closer together so that we can enjoy our sex life more often. aside from that...we set the sheets on fire anyways haha, no help needed! ;D
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 10 years
My boyfriend owns his own business, and I work from home. So we often find ourselves in our office late at night getting work done. In my ideal world, our office door would lock itself at 10 pm and we wouldn't be able to set foot in there! I think we'd pretty easily find other stuff to do :)
PinkEsq PinkEsq 10 years
Bed times. It seems like I always want to go to bed before him, so we lose that time when we first get in bed together to get frisky... By the time he comes in I am usually almost asleep.
tchan01 tchan01 10 years
Well, the first thing I thought of was a nice big tub. But that problem more has to do with the fact that I live in NYC and am too young to afford anything fancy...but one day ;-). I just love the idea of doing stuff in a nice big tub with bubbles in it! :-P
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