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Do Tell: What's Your Biggest Turn-Off in the Bedroom?

Do Tell: What's Your Biggest Turn-Off in the Bedroom?

Awkward groping, questionable hygiene, lack of foreplay: Ladies, do tell, what's your biggest turn-off in the bedroom? No one's perfect, and we've all got a pet peeve or two. Here's your chance to share a complaint or an unfortunate story you can't forget!


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Blobby-x Blobby-x 7 years
The Biggest Turn Of Is When The Boy Takes The Covers And Hogs The Bed.. Or When He Watches The Tv While Kissing You!!!
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
oh my G-od.... I tried to date this guy, but we just couldn't kiss each other.... He like tried to devour my face like a hungry chihuahua.... It was just too messy my face would end up covered in spit... and I even tried to like slow things down and show him how I liked to be kissed.... and to make matters worst at one time he went hoover vaccuum on my nipple... Alas... we didn't last that long I had to end it....
elleZA elleZA 10 years
Bad breath!!! No kissing - brush or rinse 1st!
grl-in-the-world grl-in-the-world 10 years
Bad hygiene is definitely the worst! mitzvahsha and blufairy, your answers both made me lol!
vrico2005 vrico2005 10 years
Farting! I used to date a guy that when he got excited he got nervous and farted! We never made it past 3rd base!
blufairy19 blufairy19 10 years
Too little foreplay turns it off for me. I'm one of the 40% of the women in the world who can't orgasm from penetration, and when a guy acts as if it's something nasty down there, that's a major turn off, especially since they probably expect us to enjoy choking on theirs for a prolonged period of time. Also, men who just don't know what to do, whether it be with forplay or experimentation...I was with this guy once that didn't know any other position than missionary and was too lazy to even try to wrap his brain around it. Big turnoff. I still wonder who was dumber, him for being ignorant or me for dating an idiot!
mitzvahsha mitzvahsha 10 years
Bad breath! That causes full-body shutdown for me.
PrincessLola PrincessLola 10 years
I so agree M155 J4CK13, I hate too much foreplay. If we're gonna get jiggy, no need to prolong the act. Lucky my man knows this so it's a little kissing then away we go! ;)
M155-J4CK13 M155-J4CK13 10 years
Honestly... too much foreplay. I am probably the one woman on this planet that doesn't like a lot of foreplay. My logic: If I am aroused and I want to have sex with you, why not just get straight to it? I swear, in some ways my brain is more male than female.
aistea311 aistea311 10 years
not performing as much as I do. the ratio is about 1000:1 right now when it comes to oral.
rubialala rubialala 10 years
Sloppy kissing for sure and also akward groping. I can't stand that.
kh61582 kh61582 10 years
I would have to say too much tongue. Now there can never be too much tongue south of the border;) but kissing wise it's OK to tone it down a little so I can focus on....other things....
BeachBarbie BeachBarbie 10 years
Biggest turn-off: Def. bad hygiene! There is no way I'm sleeping with someone with bad hygiene.
Marci Marci 10 years
Those bad, sloppy kissers are a total distraction.
Brittany14706805 Brittany14706805 10 years
grooming yes but no foreplay and the guy just being interested in hisself is a total turnoff. I mean come on girls we like foreplay!! If a guy doesnt want to then both ppl arent getting what they want and sex is not as good.
riverRose127 riverRose127 10 years
I agree with both of you, especially the grooming!
Lindsb Lindsb 10 years
I would say lack of grooming. Ew. Nothing grosses me out more.. They should put just as much work in that area as we do.. or at least HALF!
ccsugar ccsugar 10 years
I'd say lack of foreplay. Or the guy just interested in getting his rocks off, and not interested in me.
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