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Do Tell: Would You Change Anything About Your First Time?

Losing your virginity is a life changing experience and something that you will remember for the rest of your life. According to a previous poll, 33% of you lost your v-card between the ages of 15-18, which leads me to believe that your first time was chock full of trial and error. Now that you are older and more experienced, do tell, if you could change one thing about the first time you had sex, what would you change?


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Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 9 years
Ya i change my age to about 25 not 15 and we would be in a relationship!! but the person was cool, we still occasionally have sex and we talk about dating, marriage, and kids but it never works.
fadeastride fadeastride 9 years
You know, I wouldn't change a thing. It was sweet and honest and real. Not "perfect," but right. The guy and I are still dating. Plus, it was a lot of fun, haha!
Static-Chemisty Static-Chemisty 9 years
I haven't had a first time yet..
kh61582 kh61582 9 years
I'd probably have changed the person. It was with my current boyfriend and at first I got involved with him to make someone else jealous, which was a stupid thing to do. I love my boyfriend and he was very gentle and understanding and he loves me very much but what it all comes down to is I got in the relationship for the wrong reasons and should've saved losing my virginity for a different situation.
pinktulips pinktulips 9 years
I would change everything about my 1st time...the guy was an ass..and a total pshycopath...He still stalks me to this day and itss been like 4 years..
bbkf bbkf 9 years
I wouldn't change anything. Even though I was 14 and he was 16, we were both ready and dated for 4 years after that. It wasn't anything spectacular, but the first time rarely is. I'm glad I got it over with so I could start having better and more fun sex!
rlveronica rlveronica 9 years
I would change everything except who it was with. It wasn't good timing, it wasn't romantic, and we were stupid.
barjar1122 barjar1122 9 years
Definitely would change the location. We did it upstairs, in his parents house while they were watching TV right below us. HOW DISRESPECTFUL!!! I will kill my kids if they are ever so rude. :)
pamelamarie88 pamelamarie88 9 years
I was 15 when I lost mine, he was 16, very young. It was on a couch in the den at his families house, and everyone was home! How we got away with it I will never know. I was in soo much pain I wouldnt let him get in very far, so it was horrible for both of us. I would change the location for sure, and have put more planning and discussion into it. I would not change the guy, as that boy who I lost it to is now my husband.
Jeannie_CK Jeannie_CK 9 years
I'd change it. I was rushed and pressured. Eventually I just gave in. It was weak of me to do that and should've stood up for myself more. I was 19. The guy turned out to be a complete psycho and made my life a living hell afterwards.
pebby01 pebby01 9 years
well, i will let you know if there's anything i would change after it actually happens :)
nessabum nessabum 9 years
i don't know yet. maybe the fact that i'd get rid of the pain. neither of us came. i'm just hoping that he'll be the one i'm with all the way through to death.
MamaD MamaD 9 years
I would change everything!!! I was 19 and it was my wedding night!!!! I had had oral sex before but never intercourse. My first husband, was very selfish and inconsiderate of my feelings. I remember going into the bathroom afterwards and saying to myself, "I waited for that?" It left me empty and sad. Once his needs were met mine didn't matter, we were done. It was like that the whole 7 yrs. we were married. Plus he had numerous affairs, so yeah, I'd change it all!!!!! I had 2 boyfriends after my divorce and before meeting my fabulous new husband!!!! I figured out what I liked and how to ask for it!!!! Then man of my dreams puts me first, then himself!! We're married 17 yrs.!!!!And we add something new to the mix all the time. It's great!!!
starbright14 starbright14 9 years
I wouldn't change a thing. I waited until I was absolutely gagging for it... and then went for it. It's funny, but at the time, my boyfriend was the one who *wasn't* ready... and I pressured him into it. Needless to say, it was the best decision we've ever made!
c0rkie c0rkie 9 years
i would NOT have done it at all
hotsfmamma hotsfmamma 9 years
I wouldn't change anything except I wish I had been a little more relaxed. It was on our honeymoon, to my husband (duh) and while we'd fooled around a lot prior to getting married, somehow I was SUPER nervous and tense. We didn't actually fully consummate until like two days after (with the help of a bottle of wine). :-) Three + years later we both laugh at those first couple days of marriage...I guess I wouldn't change them and I am so happy that I waited for my husband. He was definitely worth it. :-)
Pir8Liz Pir8Liz 9 years
I'd probably change the person. I did love him, but I just wish it hadn't been him.
elizabethgracef elizabethgracef 9 years
One word: LUBE. I only lost mine July 11th, so I'm new to this club but I've learned pretty quickly that wetness makes a huge difference. MY first time was so painful (I could've sworn he was skinning em from the inside out), that I kept saying, "FUCK! OWWW. Ow ow ow." which is totally romantic, and my leg muscles locked up so tight he couldn't get too far in--needless to say neither of us came.
kt1783 kt1783 9 years
Was with my hubby, so no:)
kat32 kat32 9 years
Far,far too young and not at all special.....I do wish I'd waited a few more years. Nice enough guy...we even did it a second time with as much fumbling as the first time! Did bump into each other in pub many years later and had a laugh about it......some things really do get better with practice!;)
Marci Marci 9 years
I'd definitely change the guy
MiyabiNa MiyabiNa 9 years
I'm completely happy the way it happened. I was totally ready...and I wasn't pressured at all. He waited for me to be ready which I really respected, AND he was my absolute DREAM GUY (who I'm still with btw ^^ hehe)
snixy30 snixy30 9 years
I would have channged the person..He was a mosh pitt, grunge guy..eww..what was I thinking!!?
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