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Do Tell: Is Your Sex Life All Fireworks or Less Than Explosive?

We all dream of meeting someone wonderful to love. Someone with a zippy sense of humor, someone who's caring enough to bring us soup when we're sick, and someone smart enough to share an interesting conversation with. It helps if you find him attractive, and it really helps if your time in the bedroom is all about thrilling passion and fireworks. So I'm wondering how you would rate your sex life right now. Do tell, are things better than ever under the sheets, or are you pretty unsatisfied with the lack of excitement and pleasure?


littleblonde littleblonde 8 years
honestly, it's great. every time is different and fun and i still get excited about it after a year.
xojennifer xojennifer 9 years
mm :) enough said? haha.
Fallen85 Fallen85 9 years
I think that if my boyfriend got everything he wanted in bed but wouldnt reciprocate I would dump his selfish and lazy a$$. It wont get better, ever. Only worse. Ladies, do you really want to go the rest of your life with a selfish lover? I wouldnt. My ex was selfish. Everything went the same way, me on my knees for a while and then me on my back. "Get it up, get it in, dont mess my hair-do" Style. Awful. My boyfriend now... amazing. Every time is different and exciting. Yesterday we had sex 5 freakin times throughout the day and every single time was different and suprising. I love him so much... aww. Never Settle.
A-Journey-To-Wellth A-Journey-To-Wellth 9 years
I've got the same situation as a1stbornunicorn.. explosive. Loves it. :)
jammabam92 jammabam92 9 years
its definitely not as great as i hoped it would be. the sex life is totally one-sided...its like whatever he wants or wants me to do for him i do it...but vice versa? NEVER...8(
Fallen85 Fallen85 9 years
hehe Meike, you go girl!
Meike Meike 9 years
Fireworks. Apparently, my hubby and fallen's bf have something in common.
appreciated appreciated 9 years
Currently very unsatisfied. I just haven't felt like doing anything or been attracted to him physically much lately. I'm sure things will change. We've just gone through a big transition and are still waiting for the dust to settle. But it's hard when he gets literally angry if I turn down sex.
kmh5424 kmh5424 9 years
Excellent for the first time EVER. Have only been with bf for six months, but quite honestly, he is the only man I have ever been with where I just want him all the time. LOL. Not that he seems to mind.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
I'm 50/50 on this one. We've been doing new and fun things, which is great but we've also been having less sex overall. I'd still say it's great though.
Kristinh1012 Kristinh1012 9 years
Same here GlowingMoon, 11 years and we have great sex. I love that after all this time we are still so attracted to one another.
kia kia 9 years
Fireworks for a few years now. We don't do it all the time, there are waves, but they are good waves. I am working a lot away from the home these days... 7 days home, 7 days away. I am home this week and we have an 7 for 7 goal that has been a whole lot of fun attempting to reach. Kapow!
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
We've been together for over 10 years, and our sex life is excellent. We truly enjoy each other in that way.
divinedebris divinedebris 9 years
My sex life is good, well not right now but in two weeks when my husband gets home from Iraq it will be better, much better. I can't wait to see him! Before he left our sex life had slowed down considerably we used to have sex all the time and then we both were having problems at work and I was having a really bad time emotionally so our sex life suffered but we're back on track now. Even if there isn't a lot of sex, there is always a lot of cuddling and touching, so we're always affectionate to each other.
jennjennnbubba jennjennnbubba 9 years
if my sex life were a firecracker, I would be a dud!! :rotfl:
gossipqueen gossipqueen 9 years
After 6 years...all I can say...BOOOOOM!!! a lots of sparkles!!! :evil:
anna_muffin anna_muffin 9 years
My sex drive is kind of dried up right now, so most of the time it's just okay...when I get in the mood though, the fireworks are definitely there.
sassy_chick sassy_chick 9 years
It comes and goes. Sometimes it blows my mind, and others I wonder why we bothered. I think that's real life, though. It's not always going to be fireworks. Other things get in the way.
elizabethsosewn elizabethsosewn 9 years
I'm in my first working FWB relationship right now, and it's never been better. the sex is great [i still don't orgasm, but that's a different, long, story] and i mean best sex of my LIFE great.
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 9 years
Damn Fallen, i wish i had a replica of ur bf!!
pippins_halfling pippins_halfling 9 years
Currently non-existant sex or love life... Sighhh. Good for you guys though! :)
a1stbornunicorn a1stbornunicorn 9 years
amazing super fireworks! my boyfriend is a musician and lets just say he definitely has rhythm, hehe.
Fallen85 Fallen85 9 years
Fireworks fireworks fireworks! We always find a way to make it new and exciting... also, I just cant keep his paws off of me when we're at home, even after a year. I woke up last night at 12:30am to my very hot boyfriend going down on me... it's definitely love.
Sun_Sun Sun_Sun 9 years
its always been super great , but recently we've been able to let go of some inhibitions and its been even better :)
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 9 years
When I think of sex I get all excited but when it happens, it's kinda a let down. My partner is very selfish and likes to do it all his way.
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