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Do You Use Sex Toys?

For some women, masturbation is not only recreation, it's an act that helps them learn what they like sexually, so that they can have more fun with a partner.

But even for women who feel comfortable masturbating, sex toys can seem intimidating or even "dirty."

And finally, there are the ladies who would tell you you'd have to pry their Rabbit Pearls or Hitachi Magic Wands out of their cold, dead hands. Where are you on this continuum — do you use sex toys?

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Venus1 Venus1 7 years
Hubby, drop me a PM. Difficult to deal with here as I don't want it to look as if I'm advertising or knocking certain brands.
Venus1 Venus1 7 years
I had a dinner party and forgot I had left my waterproof one on the side of the bath! Everybody must have seen it but nobody said anything. What the hell? We should be proud of our toys anyway!
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 7 years
Yes! Sometimes with a friend but mostly with myself. Want to hear my tragic vibrator story? So I walked in my front door and there's this little spring sitting on the ground. So I think to myself, what the hell? Walking down the hall, I see some batteries, and some little bits of plastic, then the little dial on the bottom that controls the speed, then at the door to my bedroom is my beloved purple vibe- chewed up by my dog. I was mad but I couldn't help but laugh. Really, dog? Was it that tasty? I can only be thankful that I was walking in the door by myself, and not with company.
-B- -B- 7 years
Of course.
mix-tape mix-tape 7 years
I just recently got a vibrator and it is sooooo much better than before haha! My ex boyfriend was nervous that it would replace him, but real sex is obviously better :)
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 7 years
I do. It's fun.
Allytta Allytta 7 years
of course. like Susan Crain Bakos teaches us - every woman should have a wardrobe of vibes :) my boy minds a bit, he always asks me why i couldn't wait for him to come home? but i like it, i did it before him and will do it after. but then I just offer to use it together or on him and he warms up to the idea of my rabbit
lauraxtc lauraxtc 7 years
I do. I rather have my bf but when hes out of town and feel frisky I pull my toys out and enjoy my time alone. Its fun if you know what you like and how to reach an O. I love toys. :)
Venus1 Venus1 7 years
Regularly! Sometimes solo, sometimes shared with a lover. I also own a waterproof one for bathtime fun!
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 7 years
I'd never had anything until I met my latest guy. He suggested a clit vibrator for use during sex since I can't climax through intercourse alone. I cannot believe I waited this long.
Hello890 Hello890 7 years
I used them when my husband was overseas for 16 months. Don't use them now.
clareberrys clareberrys 7 years
i use them for my own personal pleasure when the boy isnt home...but we havent used sex toys together in a while. We used to a lot in the beginning. Now we have this thing called "THe Wedge" its awesome. It is a wedge shaped piece of foam covered in velvet and its supposed to enhance different sexual positions. Its great!!
RoaringSilence RoaringSilence 7 years
Girl101 Girl101 7 years
Sometimes when hubby is away for work or sometimes I use them and let him watch, he seems to like that. I do prefer him than the toys, but its fun to get him going when he watches me.
mamasitamalita mamasitamalita 7 years
have in the past, not the same as the real thing
Pistil Pistil 7 years
Not right now, but not because I'm opposed to the idea. Sounds like a fun project, KadBunny.
KadBunny KadBunny 7 years
Oh my god that's hilarious. Please please please keep that anonymous comment up. Anyways... strangely enough, I don't, although my boyfriend and I have a good amount of *ahem* gear.. but toys? Like vibrators? I haven't tried 'em. Too foreign even for my relatively kinky tastes. But who knows, hmm. Might have a go at the more realistic variety. :P I don't think I could do ones that look like glass or candy. Which, by the by, has anyone heard of this kit that will make a mold of your guys' package so you can make a dildo out of it? :D Seriously! That I want.
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