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Does Your Man Talk Sex With His Buddies?

I thought it was a given, that all guys love to talk about sex when they're hanging with their guy friends, but when I asked one of mine, he said that's not always the case. He has some friends that are always dishing about their sex lives — who they've banged (I know, that's so gross) and what not, but he also said that some of his friends just don't talk about it at all.

So what about your man? Do you think he ends up talking about sex when he's out with the boys? If so, what details do you think he divulges?

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duck-duck-goose duck-duck-goose 9 years
Definitely not.
kendalheart kendalheart 9 years
I think possibly at first my bf talked about it but that was before we were "together" and now that we are, he most likely keeps it private...i hope!!
a_mama a_mama 9 years
My hubby and I have been married for 6 years, and most of our friends are either single or in new relationships. So we both do a little sharing just to assure them that lasting relationships can stay fresh. Besides, sex is fun, we all do it (npi), nothing to be too shy or embarassed of.
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
Sydney, how could your boyfriend sleep with that grip? Even if I was sound asleep, my boyfriend would have pried my hand off with crowbars! My boyfriend and his friends are still immature enough to prefer talking about masturbating rather than sex. His friends are single, so their stories involve self-pleasure, and my boyfriend's overly private, so he never divulges any details about his sex life. They just assume, and he laughs it off.
seraphimm seraphimm 9 years
LOL Sydney!!!!!! :P Kung-fu grip. a little TMI but still funny! lol I know my boyfriend doesn't talk about it to his friends more than I would be comfortable with, because he is a gentleman and likes to keep OUR things OURS ;) + that boy in the picture is CUTE! far right one ;) hahaha
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
My bf does not, that much I know.
graylen graylen 9 years
I think most guys talk about sex when it's casual. When it's a serious relationship, they may joke about sex in general, but not specifics. Unless you are dating a complete cad, I think most of us would be presently surprised. If I talk about sex, I try to really only tell one person anything. He'd be mortified if he knew I talked to someone about it. That being said, he hates that I talk to anyone about our relationship- he feels that it's personal. However, girls need to talk! Otherwise, I would never get over the bad or confusing things!
kikidawn kikidawn 9 years
No he doesn't. I just asked him lol
Sun_Sun Sun_Sun 9 years
i HIGHLY doubt my husband talks about our sex life. hes more conservative like that. but they do talk alot of sex related things. i guess his friends do. id be embarrassed if he did though.
heineken67 heineken67 9 years
Neither he nor I talk about that with our friends.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
He doesn't talk about it with his friends. I'm sure he's mentioned that we just had sex or something like that but not details. He's not really that kind of guy and neither are his friends.
banana87 banana87 9 years
My bf and I were talking about this a few weeks ago. Apparently, among his close group of friends, some share more than others but he shares that he's getting it and getting it regularly. Oh my. What can you do? haha.
Merlin713 Merlin713 9 years
He talks about it only to reveal that he has it. Nothing more than that.
glam-sugar glam-sugar 9 years
Mine doesn't as far as I can tell other than general stuff like if he got it last night etc.
Jude-C Jude-C 9 years
I think most guys blab more about casual sex stuff than about their serious girlfriends. I know my fiance doesn't talk about our sex life at all, simply because he gets so defensive about his friends checking me out that there is no way he'd give them any reason to be able to imagine me naked or having sex. It kind of works out well that way.
rpenner rpenner 9 years
This is something me and my man talk about. The first time we talked about it he was surprised at how much more girls share then he has ever shared with his buddies. I think we'd be surprised at how many guys don't dish on their sex lives. Of course there's always that guy that has to talk about every one of his "conquests", but I also tend to think that guy's not actually banging as many girls as he says he is...
vmruby vmruby 9 years
No because we talk to each other about it. My hushand was never the kiss and tell type anyway.
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
My boyfriend is a very private person. I'm pretty sure he doesn't talk about sex with his guy friends. I'm sure he mentions something now and then, but it wouldn't be anything detailed.
Lele777 Lele777 9 years
My husband never did not even when we were dating. When his friends would ask he would always say, "I repect her and that's between me and her, not me and the entire city of_____________!"
bengalspice bengalspice 9 years
I used to think he did, but I guess my boyfriend stopped talking about sex with his friends once he and I got serious.
Sydney-C Sydney-C 9 years
My boyfriend really doesn't either I don't think. He will talk about it more jokingly when I'm around than anything...the story about me falling asleep with a "Kung Fu" grip on his..you know..is always a crowd pleaser :wink:
divinelight divinelight 9 years
I really hope the guy I'm seeing doesn't. I dated one of his friends for about 6 months, and I never slept with him. I've been with my current guy for less time than that and we've had sex, but I'm more comfortable with him. If it came up it could be really awkward for them, it would only be awkward for me if the guy I used to date confronted me about it. I don't think the guy I'm with talks to his friends about it though because he made a comment about how he was annoyed with his roommate reading him dirty text messages from the girl he's dating.
tomatoshirt tomatoshirt 9 years
My ex doesnot talk about it period. I think he just has low sex drive... a friend of his would talk about, well more like joke about it to everyone and no one really believes everything that he says... i am no sure about my current bf... i assume not...
AujahAcorn AujahAcorn 9 years
my bf talks about sex in a general way. he does not get into his personal sex life with his friends. well.... not that i know of and if he does i sure would like to know how that goes : )
Greentea1203 Greentea1203 9 years
I know my ex talked with his friends about it all the time--of course, he practically banged half the girls in my city. My best friend and my new boyfriend's best friend are married to each other, so when my boyfriend and I first had sex, he asked if I had told my best friend about it, which I hadn't. He said he doesn't talk about sex with her husband either as it's just weird since we're all really close friends with each other. I don't know...I don't think I'd care too much if he did anyway.
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