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During Sex, Are Your Eyes Closed or Open?

When I have sex, what my eyes do totally depends on my mood. Sometimes I like to have a little visual stimulation, and seeing my man's skin and movements really gets me excited. Also, eye contact is a real turn on for me.

Then there are times when I like to close my eyes and get deeper into the moment by concentrating on the physical sensations or fantasizing about people who turn me on. So what about you? What do you do with your eyes while having sex?


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iDesign717 iDesign717 9 years
wait did no one else get freaked out about this.... Then there are times when I like to close my eyes and get deeper into the moment by concentrating on the physical sensations or [[[[[fantasizing about people who turn me on.]]]]] !??!!? I think that' sso out of line! But anyways, it totally depends, but both are appropriate. not like open-eyed kissing haha!
i love looking into my babys eyes. he loves looking at me and what im doing. but sumtimes i close them cuz its just that good.
The-Drunk-Lady The-Drunk-Lady 9 years
My big browns are open. I love to look into my man's eyes and hungrily scan his beautiful, hot body. When he's talking sexy to me, I want to see how excited he is. He's a total turn on, so why wouldn't I want to look!
pink_magnetism pink_magnetism 9 years
veronicaraye veronicaraye 9 years
def. both.
mrspiven mrspiven 9 years
both... but when its really good i can't help but shut my eyes.
demeter demeter 9 years
A little bit of both.
Jennifer777 Jennifer777 9 years
It's all about what's going on at that moment...
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
We do both.... but it sorta freaks me out when we lock eyes..... He always looks way more intense that I am
InfernalMari InfernalMari 9 years
Usually closed--it lets him know that it feels good, and quite frankly, as I'm usually on top, nothing kills my mood more than the silly faces he makes during sex. God, it looks like they're pulling out splinters sometimes, makes me giggle. So...not often, but if I'm bored? XD
indielove indielove 9 years
Open is so good, I prefer it. Like you, Dear, I love seeing the skin and the movements. But if it's feeling too good, you just have to shut your eyes for a moment. Haha, why'd I even read this post? I haven't gotten any in a LONG time. Yay for celibacy. :(
HazeLiciouS HazeLiciouS 9 years
eyes close when it hits that spot...but mostly open...
princess_eab princess_eab 9 years
Both, but mostly open. Why wouldn't you want to have visual "memories"? LOL!
LadyP LadyP 9 years
A little of both...usually closed though just because it's weird to just stare at each other while you're getting it on lol.
Jinx Jinx 9 years
Sometimes open, but mostly closed.
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
fashionhore fashionhore 9 years
I am generally opened, unless I am in a sitting position and looking at nothing, then I close them. I like to look at who/what I am doing. I don't do it creepily though, ha!
citizenkane citizenkane 9 years
OPEN! I want to see my man's face. It turns me on even more!
Beaner Beaner 9 years
Eyes closed 99% of the time.
ma9321 ma9321 9 years
BOTH FOR ME... just depends on the position and if i'm feeling frisky or not.
nicachica nicachica 9 years
Wow, Dear is gettin a little frisky lately...especially with the description in this post! ;) But yes, i like both ways.
SummerBaby SummerBaby 9 years
i do both of them!
legallyblonde legallyblonde 9 years
It depends on who I'm with, but my eyes are usually closed.
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
Most of the time I close them, I like to think about how I feel and how wonderful it is! And some other times I have them open to watch or look at my bf.
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