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E. Jean Comes to Life!

If you haven't noticed by now, I am a huge fan of E. Jean Carroll. And just in case you have been living under a rock and somehow missed her weekly column on DearSugar, click here to get all caught up, you won't regret it, I promise! In the meantime, if you're a super fan like me, check out this smart and witty video of E. Jean herself with some helpful tips to spice things up in the bedroom, and please report back if her suggestions helped! Enjoy, and stay tuned Thursday for E. Jean's new Q&A.

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katlovesclothes katlovesclothes 9 years
Yay! I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE E.Jean- I've been reading her ELLE column for years (a lady never confesses how many...) and one in particular reccomending a book called "Woman" by Natalie Angiers Changed my life for the better! So Here's to the courageous and brilliant Ms. E. Jean, I'm sending the lady a bucket of Champangne! Cheers!
VixenMJ VixenMJ 9 years
You've just given me yet another reason to love love love dinner. Thanks!
Sabrina-L Sabrina-L 9 years
I will help Benson with the napkin over his eyes and see if he can find his favorite love object - the ottoman.
fab4 fab4 9 years
Acutally, E. Jean..I was yawning at the very thought of watching the video. Thanks for calling me a fruit. Maturity at its best....
tarynmkerr tarynmkerr 9 years
Ohhhh E Jean only you could make dinner SO spicy. Dinner with the boyfriend tonight is going to be a lot more interesting!
Daphonay Daphonay 9 years
Works! PS And if you're "yawning" then you're probably not using your mouth enough.
Lipstick500 Lipstick500 9 years
Oh, yes. I did this all through HS and college. I even had a night of whips and hangers. Though I would definitely recommend this for the post-14 set (ahem). So not, yawn. C'est a terrif idea with a lot of big O potential...
merymery merymery 9 years
Now all I'll have to do is steal some napkins next time we go out to a fancy restaurant...
Brittney Brittney 9 years
True love is blind. Great Sex is blind folded. I'll buy it or better yet I'll try it.
Paigefiller Paigefiller 9 years
I'm going to try this tonight!
Sania-luvs-u-2 Sania-luvs-u-2 9 years
Me likee! As long as you remember to never ever use those napkins again...
Mother-Wit Mother-Wit 9 years
Now, that's hot!
SwissMIster SwissMIster 9 years
If Oprah let's you on the show, you've got to know what you're doing. Keep up the tips, and how about inviting me over for dinner, napkins and all?
stouter3 stouter3 9 years
If Oprah ran the segment...not once...but twice... than something good must be going on under these blindfolds! I dig any type of dress-up in the bedroom. What better than being nakeeeddd and a couple of napkins? Sounds like an easy way of getting frisky between the sheets. Count me in!
NaijaSugar NaijaSugar 9 years
Sex is a time where we can be our wildest selves...gotta say, with everything that is happening during sex from sounds to positions, spicing things up is ALWAYS a welcome notion. I'm all for "do it" dice (one pair of die has body parts, the other has might roll a lick-cheek) for example...sure beats 21~
Lillyming Lillyming 9 years
I tried this. I have the bruises to prove it. It was worth it, Ms. E. Jean is right, this is the ticket to losing one's inhibitions. Just try not to set the house on fire.
miababe miababe 9 years
Blindfolded, eh? It sounds both promising and kind've messed up. I don't want to be intimate with "another person." More importantly, I don't want to become "another person" just for the sake of sex. That's what makes the intimate times so beautiful--when we can press on despite our fears AND overcome them instead of sweeping them under the rug. If ever there were an important time for the iris to open and the retina to focus, this would be that time. Otherwise, you might as well be with someone else...and be someone else.
MaliMcG MaliMcG 9 years
Beware of napkin-related complications. My boyfriend and I tried this once, but after 15 minutes of smelling the residue pasta sauce on my blindfold, I decided I'd rather eat another helping than finish the 'business' at hand. This conclusion, when announced, was NOT helpful in the bedroom. But that's an entirely different E. Jean video on tact, thoughtfulness and not choosing food over sex...
minxieminx minxieminx 9 years
I wonder if Ms. O went home and used this on her boy toy.... Now that would make a great follow up show!
goprogressgo goprogressgo 9 years
one could only blind fold each other and still respect one another in the morning if due to wed...
jakedenn23 jakedenn23 9 years
yes to the napkins, but you don't have to find your way to the bedroom- there's nothing wrong with dinner table sex. just watch 'sex and lucia'- blindfolds off. that fish entree will have well earned pop eyes after witnessing a good dinner romp...
Blindingly brilliant!! Remember to use clean napkins. Nothing kills romantic ambiance like entombing smeared remains of a light Alfredo sauce deep in your tear ducts!
OhDannyBoy OhDannyBoy 9 years
So the key to alleviating a boring sex life is to pretend like you're banging another person? How in the hell have I not thought of this.
amykc amykc 9 years
Role playing without planning the obnoxious outfits. Nice. What happens when only one person is blindfolded?
VixenMJ VixenMJ 9 years
When you say he "becomes someone else" does this mean I'm allowed to picture him as Johnny Depp? Because I hope it does.
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