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Dear Sugar
My boyfriend of 4 years and I just broke up. Last night I ran into him with another girl at the grocery store. They were holding hands and kissing - ICK! I followed them home and once she figured out who I was - she took off. He and I talked for a while and it ended badly. He said he was trying to move on and that he cherished our time together, but I was just not the one for him. Sugar, how can I get over him? I was still hoping for some kind of reconciliation? I feel crushed. Miserable Molly

Dear Miserable Molly
Don't forget about all of the reasons why you broke up in the first place. We have this strange ability to remember only the good times. That couldn't have been easy for you to see last night. But maybe it's for the best. If you are holding out for someone that's moving on, then you are just keeping the door open for more hurt ahead for you. Try to stay positive and surround yourself with loved ones who will support you. This too shall pass

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