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Group Therapy: My Ex Friend With Benefits Is Harassing Me

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He no longer understands that I don't want to continue this relationship with him. I am currently looking for more in my life and I no longer desire to have this go around with him anymore. He begs me constantly for sex and tells me that we are exclusive over and over again. He sends me text messages on a daily basis begging me for sex, blowjobs or pictures.

I have tried everything from ignoring him, reasoning with him, blocking him and even changing my number. I have had guys pretend to be my boyfriend and threaten to beat him up and he still persists. He has gone as far as to say he will never say no to me when it comes to sex and even if I am married, he will still have sex with me. He is manipulative and works in the military and always finds me regardless of my methods!! I don't feel personally threatened, but he used to verbally and emotionally abuse me and he was my fwb for over four years. I just can't take it anymore.


Every time I leave, he asks me for one more session and he promises to leave me alone, but then he doesn't so I have finished with the sessions and wish for him to leave me alone.

I don't know what the heck to do anymore.

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