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Gay-Married: The Term's Evolution

Gay-Married: A Term of Exuberance or Ignorance?

Some gay people may get married now, but do they get "gay-married"? Not so sure. The term is popular among a gaggle of campy gay (and straight) people to signify that they like something a lot. How much? They want to gay-marry it, like the Twitterer above who wants to do unmentionable things to a sandwich.

Good magazine cites our Do, Dump, or Gay-Marry Angelina Jolie post — and Pinko Magazine's more abrasive Gay Marry or Abort feature — as evidence that gettin' gay-married can be all in good fun. It's a new spin on the childhood taunt of "If you like it so much, why don't you marry it," and no different than 30 Rock's Tracy Jordan saying "I love it so much, I want to take it behind the middle school and get it pregnant."

Glib? Yes. Contemptuous? It depends. Some argue that it's insulting to gay people who want gay marriage to go mainstream; purveyor-of-the-bright-side Good thinks it entered our vernacular through the media and reflects society's comfort level with gay marriage. What do you think — is the use of "gay-marry" insulting to gays, or can it be a term expressing exuberance?

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Pistil Pistil 7 years
I don't know, how old are we? " If you like it so much why don't you marry it?"
cg130 cg130 7 years
sham28 sham28 7 years
leslievanhouten leslievanhouten 7 years
gay marriage isn't stupid. Opposite marriage is stupid.
Chrstne Chrstne 7 years
It's really quite dumb. Ugh, thank god I have never been one of those people. It just screams teenage America...or Miley Cyrus, to me.
sham28 sham28 7 years
It's silly but I don't think it's mean. I feel that it's completely different from the negative connotation involved in calling something bad "gay." I also don't see how it will hurt the push for equality. My generation is more open- minded than the previous and I think that the push is only getting stronger.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
The term is stupid. Just think about it.
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