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Good Idea or Bad Idea: Sex in the Shower

It can be a total turn on to enjoy some sexy time outside of the bedroom. And there’s nothing quite as steamy as a soapy lather and two naked bods in a hot shower. But having sex in water is not without its negatives, and the confining and slippery walls of the shower can be especially hard to maneuver. Sometimes it ends up being more awkward and frustrating than heart-pounding and sexy. But I suppose it all depends on your idea of a good time, so in that case, do you think sex in the shower is a good idea or a bad idea?


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Jake2010 Jake2010 6 years
Hey... fun topic... the shower is a fun spot... I've done just about everything in the shower... just keep positions basic and relax.... it can work.... another thing I do is bring in some honey, chocolate syrup, and whipped cream.... I like to pour it all over my guest and have lots of fun finger painting and tasting.... the warm water is soothing and keeps her comfortable and warm even if the "condiments" are a little cool... makes for some awesome sensations... then of course I become the recipient ;)
darkangel2305 darkangel2305 9 years
The shower is a great starting place, but we move to the bedroom for the main event ;)
xoxoxx xoxoxx 9 years
Shower play is just...its just tops. I mean, really. Its the bees knees. I prefer it as a prelude to the real thing, but with how busy Beau and I are these days, we're lucky to even have the time for it.
Isista Isista 9 years
We've tried actually sex in the shower before, but we can never get the angle quite right and slipping is not fun. But I chose Undecided, because foreplay and oral sex is VERY fun in the shower. I'll spare the details ;)
RaCheer RaCheer 9 years
My boyfriend is 6'5" and I'm 5'3" so it doesn't work out too well for us!
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 9 years
Dangerous, you could slip and hurt yourself or your partner! i wouldn't suggest it unless you're a pro
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
Good idea. You can always stop and move it to the bedroom if the water gets cold or something isn't working out.
fauxtographic fauxtographic 9 years
i find it fun, but once in a while there's a slip and a head-smacking-tile incident that makes it a no-go for a certain amount of time! a concussion just isn't worth it (sometimes) :)
Meike Meike 9 years
It's not really candid if most of us remain anonymous, lizlee. :p
michelleannette michelleannette 9 years
we ALWAYS shower together and sometimes an innocent shower turns into sex. i think it's fantastic. he's 6'3" and i'm only 5', so he has to hold me up and despite the initial trial and error to find a good position it's always very exciting.
Sporky Sporky 9 years
BF and I are both tall people so it's a bit tricky. Love to start in the shower but finish elsewhere. We don't want to break the door!
tlsgirl tlsgirl 9 years
My boyfriend and I have a 13-inch height difference, so trying to have sex in the shower doesn't work all that well.
lizlee89 lizlee89 9 years
wow, I can;t believe how candid some of you are about your sex lives...
sugar-n-spice sugar-n-spice 9 years
Taking notes...
Meike Meike 9 years
Yes! Positioning and balance is quite easy when you're a former gymnast.
ayuninur ayuninur 9 years
good idea!
thatsmajor thatsmajor 9 years
I'm not a big fan of sex in the shower...
MissChita MissChita 9 years
I agree w/ TidalWave, (I dont have a man now) but w/ my ex, I would like to do foreplay and kissing and other stuff (before the intercourse) in the shower. Just the hot running water down his body (OOH WEE!!! Just had a flashback) and being close was off the hook! And we would finish in the bedroom. But, actual intercourse in the shower became a little frustrating because we would slip or water would get ALL over the place and after a while we left that alone...But its a nice way to spice up a sex life if needed.
Aphrosette Aphrosette 9 years
practice makes perfect!
allinavhcnerf allinavhcnerf 9 years
hehe. it's fun ;P
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
Well, my shower is also very tiny, so my right foot has to be on the tub's protruding three centimeter (literally) inner area and my left foot goes on a built-in plastic shelf, and I crouch, while gripping the top of the stall and the top of a tile inside the shower. WOW. And with the doors closed and the temperature HOT, it can definitely make me lose my breath in both good and bad ways. Usually, when I'm on my period, we'll go in the tub and lie down without turning on the water, then clean off by taking a shower. That seems to work MUCH better. At least, it's easier for me!
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
Never had sex in the shower... But have given a blow job in the shower... His body was blocking the stream of water so it was on his back, but he moved and I gotta big burst of water to the face.... haha So was not romantic.. but we laughed so it was fun! But I did like the care he took in washing me...
lilwildone1202 lilwildone1202 9 years
i put undecided because while it isnt my favorite, i've gotten surprised in the shower. plus when i have my period its a good way to make sure im not ready to hump a chair after its over haha
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