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Is "Grinding" An Acceptable Way For A Man To Introduce Himself?

Is "Grinding" An Acceptable Way For A Man To Introduce Himself?

A British man surveyed 143 women in clubs between the ages of 18-28 about what works when a man is trying to get their attention at a bar. While most said it's better that a man introduces himself by starting a conversation, 30% said "grinding" (when he rubs his "pelvis" against you on a dance floor) was acceptable. In fact, about 84% have experienced such an introduction. So ladies, is "grinding" an acceptable way for a man to introduce himself?

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caroline_yeah caroline_yeah 10 years
That is disgusting. I hate that in my country that f*cking Reggaeton music is so hot right now. It's some sort of "latino hiphop" but very sexual. The dance is called "perreo", so you can imagine, perro=dog, perreo is the way a dog rubs against the female dog (altough is an invented word) So basically the dance is the guy grabbing you and rubbing against you, mixed with some r&b and hiphop dance moves. I can't believe that that damn stupid music and gross dance is so hot right now. Ew. Of course, I dont dance to it. I did it once cause i didn't know how it was, and then, ew, never again!!
cfeccentric cfeccentric 10 years
If any guy so much as touched me I would readily beat them up.
SwtAsSgar SwtAsSgar 10 years
I think that it's disgusting, especially before even talking at all... eww... tell me your name please at least.
vmruby vmruby 10 years
No it's not. Some guy did that to me years ago in a bar when I was with my boyfriend. The place was very crowded but i had a pretty good idea who it was.I approached him and proceeded to slap him in his face.....
whitman whitman 10 years
It's totally gross, even when everybody's drunk!
pink_magnetism pink_magnetism 10 years
If some random guy I'd never met before grinded against me to introduce himself, he'd be more likely to get kneed in that area than getting to date me.
junebrug junebrug 10 years
This guy must have interviewed British women, if he did that to many American women, he'd be missing his teeth by now.
mandykw mandykw 10 years
Giggle your comment is hilarious. I vote no way jose.
Emma Emma 10 years
yes
AlexisSF AlexisSF 10 years
It depends who it is. If it's Taye Diggs, YES, it's ok... but if it's Patrick Swayze, it ain't cool!
colormesticky colormesticky 10 years
It just wrong. Creepy and wrong. I hope they realize that that's about as far as they're ever going to get with a woman.
partysugar partysugar 10 years
Disgusting, I don't even like it when guys I know grind against me.
Community-Manager Community-Manager 10 years
Ewww, no way!
Beauty Beauty 10 years
You guys are hysterical!
Tech Tech 10 years
I voted yes, but I don't know why, cause it's not. I am embarrassed now.
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