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Handle This: Confrontation at a Bar

While enjoying a night out with friends, you find yourself snaking through throngs of people just to make it to the exit for a breath of fresh air. You’re not trying to be pushy, but the bar is so overly crowded that you inevitably bump into multiple people as you try to get out.

Just as you’re about to make it to the door, you accidentally step on one girl's toes in your four-inch stilettos. You apologize and are about to walk away when she gives you such a huge shove that you nearly fall over. Just as you’re managing to stand up, she spills her beer all over you followed by a phony “oops” and giggles come from her and her friends. You’re not used to women acting like this, so how would you handle this?


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Swedeybebe Swedeybebe 9 years
I'm with Geebers... This is the bouncer's job- not mine. I don't feel like adding assault charges to my evening out! This actually happened to me in vegas last year, although i was the one who got my foot stepped on by a stilleto heel. The girl didn't say sorry either. I didn't flip out, because the girl was so obviously piss drunk, she didn't even realize she stepped on my foot. It wasn't worth saying anything over. Now I have a fabulous bruised toe nail, and its an excuse to keep up with my pedicures!
snarkypants snarkypants 9 years
elbow to the head. it's my usual. still living in a college town. lots of drunk annoying 19-year-olds. i def know how to throw an elbow or two. mature, no, but it gets them to stop falling over on me! disclaimer: i am not a violent person, i just get a little fiesty sometimes. haha.
geebers geebers 9 years
Wow I cannot imagine someone doing this to me but if it were to happen, I would NOT get into a confrontation with her myself. I would find the bouncer and tell him the whole story. He can deal with that. And bouncers usually like me so I am sure she would get kicked out with that immature behavior. To note- stepping on someone is painful and deserves more than a half-hearted "sorry" as petite said. I would have at the very least asked if she was OK and tried to make sure she was fine. If she still exhibited that sort of behavior after that, then I would get the bouncer.
Kristinh1012 Kristinh1012 9 years
I can't even imagine something like this. I know if I stepped on someone I would apologize several times probably (especially if I was drinking). But I never go anywhere like this alone and rarely break apart from friends. I tend to be the one less likely to haul off and hit someone for ANY reason, and my friends don't hold back. So she would probably have one of my friends beating the Sh*t out of her before I could even figure out what just happened.
vmruby vmruby 9 years
She would be having my high heels surgically removed from her arse....
animatedpunk animatedpunk 9 years
uhhh, this actually happened to my sister..... well, not the stiletto thing, but for some reason a girl picked a fight with her by throwing a drink on her...... and so my sister grabbed a nearby pitcher of beer and dumped it over the girl's head...... i think i'd do the same thing, honestly.
i-am-awesomeness i-am-awesomeness 9 years
hehe I like your idea licketysplit. Idk what I would do... I wouldn't take too well to having beer thrown on me but then again it must've hurt(4 inches!!)even though it was an accident. I'd probably say something to embarass her or order her a really nasty-tasting drink and have the bartender say it's from some hot guy and watch her spit out out and laugh.
luv_bug1211 luv_bug1211 9 years
witch is getting her hair pulled. lol actually i would probably get so pissed off i would start crying.
TFS TFS 9 years
people who react to this are looking for trouble anyway.
caryatid caryatid 9 years
i think the finger would have to make an appearance. beyond that i'd probably just get the hell out of dodge and go somewhere i could have fun without bitches around.
elizabethsosewn elizabethsosewn 9 years
go to the bouncer, tell him that THAT girl is throwing drinks at people. and causing some unnecessary conflict, then laugh, smile, and wave as she gets kicked out of the bar.
popgoestheworld popgoestheworld 9 years
I'd be lying if I said I could just walk away from that. I'd probably retaliate physically. Hard not to in that situation.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
I'd just walk away and go somewhere less crowded. This is why the bar scene is not for me. Who wants to hang out with tons of drunk people who can't control themselves?
looseseal looseseal 9 years
omilawd, but if your outfit is expensive, getting into a bar brawl after getting beer on it will ruin it beyond repair! You can maybe get beer out of clothes, but blood stains are more difficult (as we all know from that time of the month...) I kind of wish I could cut someone a new one in this sort of spontaneous confrontation, but honestly, I suck at it. I can only cut someone a new one in writing, when I have some time to think things over. So I'd likely just walk away and then the witty comebacks will come to me long after it's already too late. And the violent fantasies about what I could have done. Seriously, I wish I was really capable of doing more than that.
heineken67 heineken67 9 years
If I was feeling feisty, I would probably hit her or step on her again and then make a dash out of there. Would definitely not confront her if she were with friends though. If I weren't feeling feisty,I might just laugh at her.
britnish britnish 9 years
well i would like to say i would be able to walk away, but i'm not good at that. i would probably hit her.
ayuninur ayuninur 9 years
hahaha omilawd..I just walk away..
omilawd omilawd 9 years
I'd probably just leave, unless my outfit was expensive. Then the claws would come out. :]
KadBunny KadBunny 9 years
Cat fight, I'm sorry :p
Lyv Lyv 9 years
I can't even picture that happening to me... I tend to over-apologize to people when I do stuff like that, I'd probably stick around and ask her a million times if she was ok and help her sit down and bla bla bla. If she still pulled that mega-bxtch act on me, and I was drunk enough (which I usually am)... I confess I might end up yelling at her and making a huge scene to regret the morning after.
cubadog cubadog 9 years
I have had something similar happen, however, I was not wearing 4 inch heels it doesn't matter what kind of shoes they are it hurts no matter what when your feet get stepped on. I had apologized to her and she proceeded to spill beer down my back not front thankfully. So I was a total grown-up, I told on her. I found the nearest bouncer, told him exactly what happened including that I had accidentally stepped on her foot and watched her and her stupid friends be escorted out of the bar.
laurenautomatic laurenautomatic 9 years
I think honestly I wouldn't know what to say and would be so embarrassed that I would just walk away and make up some excuse for my friends as to why I was covered in beer... hooray for avoiding confrontation, haha.
lickety-split lickety-split 9 years
wow. depending on how many people were with me, how far i am from the door and if i know any of the bouncers my answer is different. first instinct is to kick the back of her lower leg hard enough that she falls over and then yell "oh my god how drunk is she!" as i walk out the door. but that's just off the cuff.
amariexxo amariexxo 9 years
I'd be utterly choked, but if I were to freak out and react to her actions it would mean lowing myself to her level. (hello mommy advice) Obviously the girl is ether a) too immature to be worth my time or b) to drunk to be worth my time. Either way, I'd have more important things to do than kick some drunk bitches ass.
lindholmka lindholmka 9 years
gruaig_rua You're comment was priceless!!! hahahahah I died laughing when I read that!! hahaha I would not handle this well. I would prolly shove her right back as hard as I could which would prolly turn into a big rolling around fight. My 21st birthday is in 13 days so lets hope this doesn't happen!! hahahah
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