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Handle This: A Rude Encounter

On a night out with a girlfriend, you head to the local bar. When you get there, you make your way to an empty table to settle down and order some drinks. Not two minutes go by before a couple of girls come over and demand that you move because they were there first.

When you tell them that you didn’t see any glasses on the table or jackets hanging on the chairs, they get more heated. They're obviously drunk and now they’re getting up in your faces, which is making being the bigger person all the more difficult. So how would you handle this?


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Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 8 years
I'd probably give them the seats, I dont like arguments ruining my nights. Or I'd call a bouncer, the bouncers at my favourite bar are pretty good, they tend to sort things like this out before it starts.
Natalie-Love Natalie-Love 8 years
I'll just say "Ok there..." go to another seat with my friend, and laugh about it for awhile. They're the ones looking like a fool in the situation, anyway. No need to ruin your night because of some crazy bitches. xDD
ilanac13 ilanac13 8 years
i'm stubborn and i would just stand my ground and stay there. drunk people are hard to reason with, but honestly, if there were no glasses or sign that anyone was holding the table, then it was an open table for you to take.
ckeller825 ckeller825 8 years
lol and btw, from most of the responses here, it makes me wonder why so many girls have issues with each other. Let's just chill and not stress over insignificant things!
ckeller825 ckeller825 8 years
Just let the drunk girls have their table. Who's a table! Egging drunks on by ignoring them or telling them that no glasses were there isn't really such a great idea. And I also think having the bouncer intervene is a little childish, like a tattle tale. haha.
talanted08 talanted08 8 years
First of all there are no assign seat's when it comes to a club unless it's VIP and I'm sure this situation was far from that! I wouldn't let no women nor man come to my face with some bull sh*t about a seat unless it was my parents! I don't take threat's to kindly so if you want beef then you go to your local grocery store and handle that! I wouldn't get up for nothing b/c like I said if you want a seat that bad then go look for another table and next time let one of those silly girl's that are with sit at the table and hold it!!
Jeny Jeny 8 years
HELL NO I wouldn't move! I don't mind getting confrontational if girls are being beyatchs.. It's kinda ghetto I know but have some fking respect and ask me nicely or you could be cool and ask to join.. I'm nice, I don't mind!
sparklestar sparklestar 8 years
I'd move! Nothing is worth confrontation with drunk girls.
jessie jessie 8 years
nothing. hell....i'd invite them to sit with us...have a few more!
Black-Velveteen Black-Velveteen 8 years
I'd tell them bitches to step off. If they touched me, it would have been on like popcorn.
0fashionqueen 0fashionqueen 8 years
Tell the b*tches that we were here first and if they want to join then by all means pull up some chairs or mover because they are cutting in with my friends.
demure20 demure20 8 years
I wouldn't move out of my seat! I'd continue drinking and go about talking and laughing ... at them! I mean come on, its just a matter of a couple of minutes before they get thrown out due to the ruckus they're making.
LadyLiLa83 LadyLiLa83 8 years
Punch them right in the face! :) No, I'd just get the bartender or bouncer to kick them out.
javsmav javsmav 8 years
Ignore them. I did this to a girl on a SW flight. She got on the plane before me and put her stuff in a MIDDLE seat & went to the bathroom. I boarded the plane and took the empty window seat. After the plane is completely packed, she comes back and says she wanted the window seat and asked me to move. Sorry, I'm not a mind reader! There weren't any more window or aisle seats left--I wasn't moving.
aka-Daria aka-Daria 8 years
flip em off and go about getting your drink on. i hate entitled people like that, they're the same ones who at shows, they leave their spot at the front of the stage and then expect you to move
Deidre Deidre 8 years
Tell them we already started a tab at that table with a waitress, then start conversation with friend that pointedly ignores the two tableless rude chicks. Hail a bouncer if need be. This honestly isn't that big a deal; most girls are all talk and no action when it comes to getting in people's faces, so I wouldn't really be worried about some big smack-down.
cravinsugar cravinsugar 8 years
Ignore them. And, if they are lucky, I will also have been drinking and be extremely sharp tongued....probably get myself punched, but it would be worth it. Words hurt a lot longer than punches do.
lickety-split lickety-split 8 years
get the bouncer; drunks are asked to leave :)
Mesayme Mesayme 8 years
...and furthermore, this is why I don't go to places where I have to babysit drunk people...
bchicgrl bchicgrl 8 years
I would try and ignore them at first but if they kept getting in my face and no one working there came over to intervene I would do one of 2 things, get back in their face or move to a different table. It all depends on who I'm out with that night.
Mesayme Mesayme 8 years
Get the bartender's attention, ignore them unless they touch me. If they touch me, I'm changing a couple faces.
Renee3327 Renee3327 8 years
I would just ignore them because I don't believe in giving in to people like this (thus giving them a reason to keep doing it). I've dealt with annoying drunk girls like this before and they tend to give up before it escalates. And if it does escalate but you're the one keeping calm then you'll usually win in the end anyway.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 8 years
Hmmm...If it was just me and my girlfriend then I probably would just move because i dont want to deal with the drama or I wouldn't want to get jumped. lol. but if it was me and a few other friends, I would get in there face as well. Who knows.
Lele777 Lele777 8 years
I agree with the ignore until an emplyee notices that they are being complete jackasses and asks them to simmer down or leave.
Melo-D Melo-D 8 years
I'd just sit there b/c my girl would be handling the situation. Lol. Majority of my friends aren't the type to ignore someone in her face. I'd simply pull over an employee and ask if these ladies have been served at this table and then place my order anyway.
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