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Handle This: Your Boyfriend Wants You to Get a Boob Job

Your chest has always been on the smaller side, and though you've complained on occasion about not being able to fill out a particular top, or looking too small in a bathing suit, for the most part you don’t mind being flat chested — at least you can go braless when necessary! Well it turns out your boyfriend has a different opinion.

After jokingly mentioning a few times that he would love to see what you'd look like with breast implants, now he’s actually offering to pay for a boob job. You’re totally shocked that he’d take it this far so how do youhandle this?


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missobtuse missobtuse 8 years
id dump his ass on the spot. Am not going to chance my body for some man
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 9 years
Well, I'm naturally very busty, and on my petite frame, I'm even more buxom. Someone once presumed I had breast implants. No man ever suggested breast augmentation to me. LOL However, if I was in that situation, I would dump him. If he's not happy with my body, he could find someone else.
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 9 years
Sun_Sun wins this one..... "Tell him "baby thats so great u've saved enuff for plastic surgery. now u can have the penile implant i've always thought u needed" that ought to shut him up" I wouldn't dump him.... I would just tell him that I am not interested in altering my appearance. And that he's loved me flat-chested for so long that he should deal.
Janine22 Janine22 9 years
Yeah, I agree with the others about the money. I would say oh do you really think so? Would you really pay for it? Ok, honey, my appointment is __o'clock on ___. If you could just deposit the money into my account. Then I would take the money, go on a fabulous trip. Oh yeah, and kick him in the nuts hard before I go, saying thanks for the money jackass. Then I would go on vacation, meet a gorgeous foreign man who loves my tiny titties, and have lots of great sex with him! :)
Muirnea Muirnea 9 years
...and I would feel good about myself because I would have small boobs that wouldn't get in the way of my I could run faster to get away with the money!!!! hahahaha :D :-P LOL LOL LOL. This was a good topic...very entertaining.
Muirnea Muirnea 9 years
Ooo, I changed my answer.... gruaig_rua: Hell yeah!!!! I would take the money, and then say what I just said in my last post...and then run!!! Hahahaha, ROTFL. :D
Muirnea Muirnea 9 years
I would tell him he needs a bigger penis because I am just not feeling it anymore, hahahahahahah, literally and figuratively. And then I would dump his ass. And I know its easy to say things on here about what we "would" do...but if anyone ever said anything like that to me, I would lose ALL respect for them and seriously dump them and never talk to them ever again.
inertia inertia 9 years
There's no way my husband would ever suggest this so I'm going to imagine it coming from a theoretical new boyfriend. I don't think I have the temper to dump him on the spot but the relationship would basically be over within the week. Something like this actually happened with a friend of mine. (She broke up with him.) I was surprised to hear it because she's at least 2 cup sizes larger than me, and all I've ever heard from men is that my body is great the way it is. I guess the men who really have a thing for big breasts don't even know I exist, which is fine by me.
lilprincess lilprincess 9 years
I actually am getting breast implants and my boyfriend DID offer to pay for them (well he cosigned my loan and we will both be making payments as we live together and share finances.) BUT I have wanted this for a long long time to feel better about myself. I was the one who asked him what he would think and asked him to cosign the loan. I agree with what a previous poster said about commitment, it was a really good sign to me that he agreed to cosign and sweet since he knew how much I wanted it. I don't feel like he pressured me to get them at all, because if that were the case and he thought I needed bigger boobs, I don't think he would have been with me in the first place. HOWEVER, if this was totally his suggestion and I clearly did not want to have surgery, I would laugh in his face and walk away. Your boyfriend is supposed to be the one person who makes you feel beautiful no matter what.
Hootie Hootie 9 years
Absolutely not! Never augment your body for anyone but yourself! That goes for tattoos, piercings and SURGERY! If you wanted to do it on your own and he offered to pay, then great. But if he is pressuring you and making you feel like you should do it for him ~ I would dump his A$$!
vmruby vmruby 9 years
I'd look at him like he lost his flipping mind and then proceed to find myself a new boyfriend because it's obvious that he doesn't care about me.
Nina_79 Nina_79 9 years
Dump him and get him a brain implant, because that seems to be what hes really missing.
Princess-Rebecca Princess-Rebecca 9 years
I wold occasionally start to mentioned that maybe he needs some surgery too -down under. And that I would be happy to pay for it... I'm a bitch ;)
drhotie92 drhotie92 9 years
Dump him. no man is worth risking your life for.
crackaddict crackaddict 9 years
oh my goddd yes use the money to buy something you really want and leave his ass
leeluvfashion leeluvfashion 9 years
"baby thats so great u've saved enuff for plastic surgery. now u can have the penile implant i've always thought u needed" :rotfl: great comeback comment SunSun!
leeluvfashion leeluvfashion 9 years
I would tell him where he could shove that silicone implant and then dump him.
RockAndRepublic RockAndRepublic 9 years
Id totally take part of the money. But yeah, he'd be dumped.
janneth janneth 9 years
You are so lucky! You have found out what an immature person he is before you got any more involved. How insecure HE must be to want to re-design YOU! Would you really want this personality flaw in your life permanently? How clueless. He mentioned it jokingly, you did not bite, now he is pushing it, even offering a finacial incentive. Ba-bye.
Trixie6 Trixie6 9 years
DUMP HIM! After I made fun of his small penis and kicked him in the teeth for being an insensitive pig.
neonbee neonbee 9 years
Dump!! That's just really insensitive.
samischo samischo 9 years
i'd tell him i'd start wearing push up bras (my boobs are so small i don't ever wear any kind of bra) and that i would want a nose job instead haha. if he didn't agree... DUMP!
sugar-n-spice sugar-n-spice 9 years
That is completely insensitive. I say dump him and find someone who appreciates you for YOU!
Bookish Bookish 9 years
I dump the guy, pronto. I love my body.
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