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Have You Ever Dated the Same Person as Your Sibling?

Last week, one of my pals here at Sugar HQ told me a frightening story. While talking to her younger sister, she mentioned a nightmare date she went on with a guy she met online. As she started describing the guy and his aggressive touchy-feely nature, her sister wanted to hear more. Turns out the sister had been out with the same jerk a few times before! My friend was less than pleased, especially since this man probably knew they were related and never said anything. Still, not all siblings-dating-the-same-person stories are the same. Just like with friends, your sister might recognize that her ex could be your perfect match or vice-versa. Have you ever dated the same person as your sibling?

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danakscully64 danakscully64 7 years
Sorry, no cool yes story to contribute. That's a big no-no. Nasty too. Your siblings get to hear your stories as to why you're not with the guy anymore, why would siblings go for the guys/girls who are known losers?
inlove23 inlove23 7 years
Hell no thats wrong. I would seriously kill my sister if she made a pass at any of my ex's and I'm sure she feels like same way. Plus, I'm almost 19 and she is 15 so it's just a tad wrong.
Venus1 Venus1 7 years
As if life's not complicated enough!
Pampire Pampire 7 years
Absolutely not!!! That's just gross!!!
king2x king2x 7 years
My only sibling is male and he's straight.
starbucks2 starbucks2 7 years
My brother's straight, so no. Eww....My brother-in-law's cousin is now dating his ex-girlfriend's daughter (confusing, I know) which I find so sick...Woody Allen anyone?
robinlh912 robinlh912 7 years
Only child haha
skigurl skigurl 7 years
nope...i have a bro and a sister who is 7 years younger than me, so no way we could date the same guy i wouldn't be cool with this anyway need for sloppy seconds!!
snarkypants snarkypants 7 years
my sister dated two guys after i did. gross.
gummybears123 gummybears123 7 years
no that would be totally weird
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 7 years
No thankfully, we've both had some bad relationships and we wouldn't wish those boys on anyone, let alone our sibling.
pink-elephant pink-elephant 7 years
No, but I did date my fiance's brother a couple of times before him. That's how my fiance and I met!
Daniela-Ramirez Daniela-Ramirez 7 years
I dont have any sisters.. but this is totally against the girl rules!... if bff's bf are completely out of the questios.. i can't imagine dating someone who dated my sis
kurniakasih kurniakasih 7 years
thank goodness no, that'll be weird seeing that I have a brother and we're both straight.
totygoliguez totygoliguez 7 years
No. First of all my sister is a lot older than me and she lives in another continent. Also, we are very different, and I imagine that this includes our taste in guys.
msdecember msdecember 7 years
ha ha. i'm the oldest and my sister closest in age to me is about 18 years younger than me!!! NEVER!
Ac2366 Ac2366 7 years
I only have brothers so this isn't an issue for me. I wish I had a sister.
HoneyBrown1976 HoneyBrown1976 7 years
hell no
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
lilegwene lilegwene 7 years
Nope, I have two sisters and it has never been an issue. In fact, one of my sisters went to school with my husband, knew him for over a year before I ever met him, and tried (successfully) to get us together at her own wedding.
gingirl gingirl 7 years
Nah, I have 2 straight brothers, so that will never be a problem. Though my youngest brother has always said I could never date anybody he didn't "approve" of. He's 9 years younger than me! Too cute. Guess I'm lucky he likes my bf so much. ;)
CiaoBella01 CiaoBella01 7 years
that would be quite difficult as i have one brother and i'm pretty sure he prefers the ladies. but if i did have a sister, i would NEVER do it! i have many girlfriends and i am a strong believer in the girl code!! no man is enough to break up a friendship between sisters!
andriahanly andriahanly 7 years
No way!! That breaks the girl code rule!!!
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