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Have You Ever Faked an Orgasm?

It's a sad fact that it can take a woman much longer to climax during sex than it can for a man. If we're not that into it from the start, 30 minutes can go by and we're not even close to orgasm. The guy can try every trick he's got to get you excited, but sometimes, it's just not gonna happen.

At this point you have a few choices:

  • You can try some more and hope for the best.
  • You can throw in the towel and tell your man to just go for it (there's always next time).
  • You can let your man finish and then go to the bathroom and take care of it yourself (if you think that may be possible).
  • Or you can FAKE IT (like Meg Ryan did in the diner in When Harry Met Sally, and make your guy think it was the best sex you've ever had!

Personally, I would have a hard time faking it, not because I think it's wrong, but because I really don't think I could pull it off - knowing me I'd end up laughing in the middle, plus, I wouldn't want to start a trend in the bedroom where I end up having to fake it all the time with my partner never really knowing how to turn me on. So what I want to know is...


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sherry88 sherry88 9 years
heh I never had to, I have multiple orgasms during sex and oh god am I pleased after, if I was stressed or upset before I would be the happiest girl youd see after
barjar1122 barjar1122 9 years
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peachdenise peachdenise 9 years
I agree with ashcwebb. My current boyfriend is really the only guy I've been with who has given me a truely great orgasm. I think it definitely intensifies things when you really care about the person you're with, as opposed to just trying to get laid. :P
extremely_posh extremely_posh 9 years
Lol @ the results!! Everyone's done it!! :DBut just once ;)
extremely_posh extremely_posh 9 years
Lol @ the results!! Everyone's done it!! :D But just once ;)
KadBunny KadBunny 9 years
I have, yeah. :P I didn't wanna hurt his ego. That was just one time though.
KadBunny KadBunny 9 years
I have, yeah. :P I didn't wanna hurt his ego. That was just one time though.
foxy21 foxy21 9 years
Nope, honestly I never faked...if it didnt happen it didnt happen... he can finish and i can do it myself... i just dont think its right in my opinion to do that...i always wanted to try tho to see if he could tell....
mominator mominator 9 years
Never! I am pretty out spoken and let them know if they just aren't doing the job right for me.
pinklove89 pinklove89 9 years
of course..everyone has faked it at one point or another
ducks ducks 9 years
Never. Not a lie. I think it's lame to fake.
eatingcookies eatingcookies 9 years
Haha. I've never had to. My husband rocks.
eatingcookies eatingcookies 9 years
Haha. I've never had to.My husband rocks.
Sofiababy Sofiababy 9 years
hahahahaha come onnn everyone's faked it!! no but honestly, i've never done the meg ryan , screaming, and a leg twitch included kind of fake. i just find it so cheesy.
Jinx Jinx 9 years
I find the results of this poll rather disturbing, or at least sad, lol.
DaddysDarlin DaddysDarlin 9 years
If we were being really honest with ourselves the voting would be 100% yes of course. I personally believe that every woman has faked it, gone through the shopping list, made mental notes for our to do lists. It happens, and if it hasn't yet it will!!! Its nothing to be embarrassed about, sometimes you just aren't that in to it. Its normal, don't worry.
cgmaetc cgmaetc 9 years
I was dating this total self-centered asshole who thought he was the greatest stud in bed. NOT! Whenever I used to give him pointers, he dismissed them because I was a virgin before him, so what did I know? One night, it just wasn't happening for me, so I faked it. But he wasn't done! So I waited a bit and faked it again. He's still going. About fake O number 5 I said, "Will you hurry up, already?!" And he said he was almost there...but 3 minutes passed and finally, I just got up and started to get dressed. He began to yell but I just grabbed my stuff and left and I didn't call him again. I was fed up: I'd been faking it for almost a year!
demonkitty18 demonkitty18 9 years
haha yea sumtimes jus cuz i don'twant my bf to feel bad- boost his confidence, etc.
beautiful1nes beautiful1nes 9 years
I've only been with one guy and still with him and I have never faked it with him, Lets just say he gets me every time lol oh hell yeah he's da shit!
savilerow085 savilerow085 9 years
OMGGGGGGGG i was so sick of being nagged the entire time having sex that i just faked was so dumb
getstinko getstinko 9 years
as a man who cares if his woman has an orgasm, I'd be hurt to find out that my lady didn't trust me enough to give me feedback and instead decided to fake it.
LadyP LadyP 9 years
Yes, I have. I think a woman is lying if she says she's NEVER faked an orgasm.
getstinko getstinko 9 years
Yeah I guess my point was - like why make a dude feel like he's doing it right by faking, it just reinforces behavior that's not working. I guess unless you are just lying there waiting for him to finish because you aren't into it, something I know some women do, but I've never understood why. either you are into it or not, and if you are you should be communicating and providing feedback to get that orgasm - you deserve it
pinupsweetheart pinupsweetheart 9 years
Sadly I have before in the past, it wasn't that good of a session and I just wanted to get it over with. Sad huh?
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