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Have You Ever Had a Secret Lover?

No matter how many times they try to deny their relationship, the photos of Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer don't lie! But since they're aware these pics exist, I'm left wondering why they continue to stay mum about their affair. It seems that keeping relationships under wraps in Hollywood is the thing to do these days — Brad and Angelina did it and Minnie Driver has the press jumping through hoops trying to figure out who her mystery man is. I'm the exact opposite — whenever I'm in love, I want to shout it from the rooftops! So what about you? Have you ever had a secret lover or ever tried to keep your new romance undercover or are you with me, the more people that know the better?


Sydney-C Sydney-C 9 years
Ahh yes, back in my player days...they were all secret from one another!!
UrbanBohemian UrbanBohemian 9 years
Yes, I had one just last fall. We lived in the same apartment complex and had friends in the same circles, but nobody ever found out about us.
yadiet yadiet 9 years
I did it once and the thrill was extreme. But it did not last long. As for Jen, she deserves it. She is happy and thats what matters. Plus her and john look extremely good together. So i bet his sweet music is what has here hooked. ;)
tomatoshirt tomatoshirt 9 years
Whenever I am in a relationship, I just can't keep my mouth shut or hide the smile on my face. But then I understand why people try to hide it at the begining... I sometimes wish i could hide it so i wont jinx the relationship hehehe....
tweet-hotpants tweet-hotpants 9 years
in college i had a secret relationship with someone in my group of friends- his roommate liked me, so we decided to keep it secret so we wouldn't hurt his feelings. eventually he found out anyway. it was fun while it lasted, but i'm glad i'm not with him anymore...
vmruby vmruby 9 years
Yes once....We worked in the same office and didn't want our co-workers nosing around in our personal business especially in the beginning of our relationship.I actually liked all the secrecy it was really romantic & exciting.Eventually we did decide to let people know that we were dating after about 8 months into it.Nobody had a clue what was going on.
skigurl skigurl 9 years
i had a guy in highschool who was 2 years younger than me, and we got along so well, but there was no chance i would tell my friends because i'd be fully judged, so we hid it!
heineken67 heineken67 9 years
Not for long, I can't keep secrets well!
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
I don't think I have!
bbkf bbkf 9 years
Yes, but it was because he was my high school teacher!
saranightly saranightly 9 years
I have, which is funny if you knew me. Once my senior year of high school, and that was supposed to be secret from everyone. When I started dating my current boyfriend, I was a supervisor and wasn't supposed to be dating him, and we kept it secret (at work) for around 6 months.
avettafawna avettafawna 9 years
Sort of, but more out of shame than anything else. On a side note, how does John Mayer keep getting all the pretty ladies? I don't get it.
bsglrok132 bsglrok132 9 years
I don't usually volunteer the information, but I've always been honest when someone has asked me.
javsmav javsmav 9 years
I dated a guy at work & we kept it on the DL. It was kind of fun actually.
mlen mlen 9 years
yea my friends have a tendency to be very nosy- especially if two people in the group starting "hanging out" more often. i on and off dated and hooked up with a guy friend of mine for 3 years but we kept it on the DL. a couple of our best friends knew but everyone else had no idea- they found out much later on and were shocked!
lms lms 9 years
ninjastarlett ninjastarlett 9 years
Definitely have had things that I kept on the down-low... ;-)
CoconutPie CoconutPie 9 years
Yes. More than once.
miriah15 miriah15 9 years
A couple times yes! There's something so...naughty about it. It's fun to sneak around for awhile and try your hardest to hide it.
duck-duck-goose duck-duck-goose 9 years
miss-jaxx miss-jaxx 9 years
Yes I did! When I was in college, I started seeing someone a friend forbid me to see because she had hooked up with him a year and a half before. I thought I should be allowed to though because she was in a serious relationship at this point, but I still had to keep it a secret.
emalove emalove 9 years
Yes! But only because I had good reasons...or they seemed good at the time anyway. One was in college, a guy that none of my friends liked, so I didn't tell anyone we were dating for awhile. And then there was a guy I met at a bar when I was 22...I was crazy about him and we had a thing, but I had just broken up with a SERIOUS long-term boyfriend and didn't want people to say I was "rushing into a new relationship".
aimeeb aimeeb 9 years
Can't say that I have...
Sun_Sun Sun_Sun 9 years
yea i stayed coy for a long time
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