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This or That: He Complained or He Exaggerated?

Your boyfriend is late getting back from the gym so you find yourself waiting for him at his place. You decide to hop on the computer to pass the time. His email is open on his desktop, and when you catch your name in one of the subject lines, you read through the message. You’re really upset to read your boyfriend’s comments to his brother about the first time you guys had sex (less than a week ago). Would it be worse if he…

This: Described how disappointed he was by your moves, and didn’t feel like you were feisty enough for him? He sure didn’t seem disappointed at the time!


That: Completely exaggerated what you guys had done, referring to you as a total freak who would do absolutely anything to please him, and describing sex moves you’ve never even heard of? You can’t help but wonder why he needs to lie.

Ladies, what would be worse in this situation?


Korsgal Korsgal 9 years
I'd be pissed either way, but I'd rather he exaggerate. Pumps up the ego
Astro_nerd Astro_nerd 9 years
I said "this" would be worse: I would hate to be boring! If I read the exaggeration, I would probably do half the stuff I read! But if I read that he found me blah, I would so never go to bed with him again. Out of shame, hurt and an irrepressible desire to never meet his brother.
Asia84 Asia84 9 years
I say THAT, because if i saw THIS, you can best believe that would be the LAST time he got so see my blah a*s. i hate when people lie and talk sh*t about me behind my back. if i can be honest and tell people how i feel about them to their face, then i expect the same respect. Jerk.
kaenai kaenai 9 years
Guys exaggerate. Most guys wouldn't believe that crap anyway, and they wouldn't have a chance to find out, so why should I care? I'd be more upset if he said I was terrible. :(
emalove emalove 9 years
That. It seems like typical behavior for a lot of guys...I could deal with it. The first option would hurt me more.
LadyAngel89 LadyAngel89 9 years
it would be horrible to find out that your man thinks you're only so-so or worse in bed! at least in the named situation he would be exaggerating to his brother whom he probably feels he needs to one up. I can deal with exaggeration, but not genuine disdain.
aeschere aeschere 9 years
i don't think exaggerating would be all that bad.. i'd easily pass that off as guy talk and not personally against me.. nothing serious. now if he was actually disappointed in me.. well then...
red4bonez red4bonez 9 years
i voted the second. I rather him to exaggerate than say im boring.
Meike Meike 9 years
Either way, both options mean he didn't find you great in bed but lying is worst than telling the truth. Hence, the second option is worst.
Lambsauce Lambsauce 9 years
Him calling me so-so would be way worse... I don't know, it could just be because my boyfriend has a tendency to exaggerate everything (and everyone knows he does, so his bro would probably be able to tell), but I would way rather he talk about things I haven't even heard of (hey, maybe I could even pick up on the hint and learn them... could be fun!) than call me boring, any day.
cubadog cubadog 9 years
Who cares either way. I went with that. I think this whole question is dumb not only that the first time you had sex was a week ago.
mandy_frost mandy_frost 9 years
I didn't vote. In this situation, I should feel ashamed either way for snooping.
0danielle0 0danielle0 9 years
I'd be upset either way, but the later would probably be closer to the truth. ;) And I'll agree with Berlin too. Snooping never leads to anything good...
luv_bug1211 luv_bug1211 9 years
I like berlins solution best ;) The only way he would ever know is if he came out and asked... hehehe.
cvandoorn cvandoorn 9 years
I would be pissed and embarrassed when meeting his brother!! But yeah, like erratic assassin said...rather a wh*re than a bore!! Nobody wants to be known as boring in bed!!
Berlin Berlin 9 years
I wouldn't care if he exaggerated...hell i'd use it to my advantage and act out what he said to his bro and blow his mind:) But it'd be even better if you do it almost to a T and then give that "knowing" grin at the end where he knows he's been caught. Now THAT'S power lol
erratic-assassin erratic-assassin 9 years
then again, if I was waiting on him at his place, I wouldn't hop onto his laptop...I'd turn on the TV or play guitar hero...I'm nosey, but I wouldn't go in there knowing I may be tempted to skim thru his stuff.
Belle1031 Belle1031 9 years
Its one thing to discuss me being "blah" in bed but a totally other thing to tell his brother. I'd be pissed either way and I doubt he'd get any for a while. :P
erratic-assassin erratic-assassin 9 years
i'd rather be reffered to as whore than a bore (haha, didnt mean to rhyme) I mean, I know I'm not (or am i??) so why worry? I'd be kinda hurt if someone thought I was boring, u know? either way, I'd be pissed!
almost-famous almost-famous 9 years
I would feel odd if he were to say I was blah... I would rather that anyway, but still... I don't wanna see like a whore to outsiders.
ayanaphil ayanaphil 9 years
I think the scenario in "this" is worse. I would be pissed that he didn't come to me and let me know what was going on so we could make some improvements instead of telling his brother I was bad. I don't really care about exaggerations.
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 9 years
I would be pissed too either way. But I picked THAT because I don't EVER want to hear I am so-so in the sack!
CoMMember13630786602261 CoMMember13630786602261 9 years
Muirnea Muirnea 9 years
It would be worse if he exaggerated for me. I mean either one sounds bad, but I would rather people think I'm a more innocent calm quiet person, than a crazy almost porn star, lol.
CoMMember13630786602261 CoMMember13630786602261 9 years
either way Id be seriously pissed. But I think the first would be worse. I think all guys exaggerate their sexual edeavors a little bit (especially when talking to other guys, especially when that other guy is thier brother.) So I think that would be forgivable (inappriate, but forgivable) But if he told his brother that you were just blah, then hes probably telling the truth...and that just sucks.
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